"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Having A Girl Know U Wanna Get With Her

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SexinEar

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Would it work for or against me if my friend says to this girl that I wanna get with her? He said its a good idea because half the work is done. I'm not sure tho, thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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we all eat food

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lol wtf, dont goto a girl and say u want to get with her, jsut ask her out
 
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You: "I want to Woo-Hoo you" *sly look*
*she stares at you for a minute.....*
You: "Oh comeon, I Woo-Hooed six times yesterday"
Her: "Meh, ok"
 
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it just raises the chance of her thinking of you as sexual object rather than a potential "friend". just dont be a pu*sy about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok so having my friend say to her i wanna get with her is a bad idea, right?
 
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Screw it, you're only in high school. Give it a shot. That's the type of crap you can pull off when you're a teenager, might as well take advantage of it.
 
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