Having a Crush on a girl and making a move and it not working out!

[crackers444]

Last year, there was a girl in my class that I really fancied. She was very cute and intelligent. I developed a rapport with her and she likes to chat with me. I participated in class and she liked what I had to say and she glanced at me in class once. I ended up getting her msn address. I would often see her around school at the same time as me. When I got her email address, it turned out she wasn't much of a net person and didn't come online! On the second last class of Anthro/Soc she happened to be on the same bus as me and I chatted with her, it took a little while to open up. I was going to ask her out but chickened out and figured she was busy with school and didn't know if she had a boyfriend or not. I never got another chance again! She never showed up for last official class and couldn't have asked her out on Exam day, she finished her exam in 20 mins! This semester I saw her around School, I didn't even chat with her was too shy! Do you think I just l just had bad luck with her or do you think it was meant to be that I didn't ask her out? My crush on her lasted a long time and now have only fond memories of her.

 

[ryannath]

No, it wasn't bad luck why you didn't ask her out and it wasn't meant to be for you not to ask her out. The fact is you chickened out and you know it. If you see her again, ask for her number. She will either give it or not. It's not rocket science.

 

[Moby_On_D]

Exactly. I was like you in my first year of university, saw a girl, thought she was cute and kinda had a crush. Never talked to her though. Then this year I just said "f*ck it" and she actually approached me. Dude there's nothing to be afraid in life, besides maybe a freight train steaming towards you. But with girls, why are you afraid of another human being... its natural to interact with people. So just let it come, and don't be so nervous. Be self confident and you'll notice a difference and the people around you will too.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Last year, there was a girl in my class that I really fancied. She was very cute and intelligent. I developed a rapport with her and she likes to chat with me. I participated in class and she liked what I had to say and she glanced at me in class once. I ended up getting her msn address. I would often see her around school at the same time as me. When I got her email address, it turned out she wasn't much of a net person and didn't come online! On the second last class of Anthro/Soc she happened to be on the same bus as me and I chatted with her, it took a little while to open up. I was going to ask her out but chickened out and figured she was busy with school and didn't know if she had a boyfriend or not. I never got another chance again! She never showed up for last official class and couldn't have asked her out on Exam day, she finished her exam in 20 mins! This semester I saw her around School, I didn't even chat with her was too shy! Do you think I just l just had bad luck with her or do you think it was meant to be that I didn't ask her out? My crush on her lasted a long time and now have only fond memories of her.

First of all read the Bible front to back, then back to front. You should be able to answer your own question after that.

Just to give you a head start in the right direction, it had NOTHING to do with bad luck and EVERYTHING to do with the opportunity you never took.




PIMP

 

[Last Man Standing]

If you don't do it then you are going to dream about this girl forever - like I did 27 years!!l :{