havin gf requires money

[joe45]

i was told by my folks who are both chinese that having a gf requires the guy(bf) to have money. i have a female cousin married a guy who makes 3500 (lots of money) a month-something like that. from that i guess my folks are getting the example that havin a wife or getting a gf required the guy to make lots of money and have a great job.

"if u have a great job and lots of money every girl would want u-u dont; have to go to em they come to u if u have lots of money"-my folks

ok my question is this does havin a gf requiring the guy to have lots of money. ur guys thoughts and feelings. any oif u guys are broke or not rich at all and have a gf and how did u find her and what do u guys do. i thought havin money and nice clothes and car would impress the gurl to like u even more and take away the competion of other guys

btw i am a 24 aisan male and never had a gf yes never. parents are strict and overprotective ppl, so i grew up being a shy and quite passive guy. recently i have changed by talkin to ppl on forums and giving me suuport so thank u guys

 

[aftershock]

You don't need money. I dress well, for reasonable money. I don't drive. I insist on going 50/50. And I have a HB9.5.

I've got her because I'm good looking, fun to be around and confident.

It's true that you can "buy" women, however these tend to be gold-diggers who are only after money. Alternatively, you could read the Bible, get a good mindset and have them attracted to you with little money.

It's up to you mate.

 

[ChenCristos]

the best tool you can have to impress a girl is yourself. Not clothes nor car nor money. If you can walk in a room and be alpha or demonstrate social proof, social skills, etc etc thats enough right there. I'm half Chinese and I got the ol' Chinese dating advice from my family... here in the USA you gotta disregard about all of it to really be in the game. I have a girl now that I'm about to dump and I met her when I didn't have a job...

 

[joe45]

what did they say the chinese dating advice i like to hear about it

Originally posted by ChenCristos
the best tool you can have to impress a girl is yourself. Not clothes nor car nor money. If you can walk in a room and be alpha or demonstrate social proof, social skills, etc etc thats enough right there. I'm half Chinese and I got the ol' Chinese dating advice from my family... here in the USA you gotta disregard about all of it to really be in the game. I have a girl now that I'm about to dump and I met her when I didn't have a job...