Havin a tough time with this girl

[Dannyrt34]

The danny finally found a girl he likes, haha.

Well I went out with a girl twice this week after I flaked on her twice (long story, not getting into that). Before our first date, when I asked her to come out with me, she said "You said we were hanging out twice now and we still never hung out" I felt bad and said "If I don't come there to pick you up then you never have to talk to me again", in a joking way.

Anyway, so I went and picked her up that night. She looked way more beautiful than I remember when I met her. She has dark hair, blue eyes, and a lip pearcing that actually looks really sexy on her (Normally not a fan of facial peircings). She wore these jeans with major rips in the upper legs, which also was kind of a turn on, haha. I took her to starbucks and we got a coffee and sat down. We were constantly holding hands and such, she's a really nice, down to earth girl and talking was a breeze with her. I didn't really try for a kiss, because the opportunity never arised. We hung out for about an hour and I drove her home. She sent me a text that night making sure I got home ok. This was the last time we contacted each other that day.

2 days later. She sends me a text just seeing what I was up to, and I decided to make plans for a second date (On valentines day, oh boy). She said she'll go out and that was that. Later, that same day, she sends me another text, saying "Hey you don't have to hang out with me if you really don't want to".... This kind of threw me off, I was thinkin 'why the hell would she say that?' And I replyed and asked her why she doesn't think I want to see her. She just said "It just seems like you don't want to see me"

I don't really know where she came up with this from, but I did really want to see her. I was thinking she might be one of those rare beautiful girls with low self-esteem, so I just played it cool, picked her up on v-day, and we went to Dave and Buster's. Again, we had an ok time. I really wanted to kiss her, usually I can tell when it's a good time to kiss the girl, but once again, the opportunity never arises. We sit next to each other and she talks about her day at work and stuff. I try saying she looks great, and she says "you look good too, as usual" then she changes the subject back to other, non flirty things. Meanwhile, I'm trying to progress into a kiss, but can't find the right moment, sh't!

She always looks a little bit nervous or something when she's with me, so I'm thinking she's shy. I can tell she's very interested because she always gives me compliments in this real innocent way. Saying she's happy that I'm with her and says she's glad she got to see me. Now I need to figure out how the hell to get a kiss out of this girl. Should I continue to wait for a good opportunity? even though, by the looks of things, this might be a while. Or one day should I just go ahead and kiss the girl? Without waiting for the proper moment. Never had this problem, the girl just talks real innocent and stuff all the time and it just never seems like the right moment ever arises.

Just gotta figure this out soon, because we're comin up on the 3rd date here. Gotta at least get a kiss, haha.

Thanks for reading guys.

 

[vitor]

She said you do not like me because

A. You have not kissed her or engaged her in any race contact.
B. She is debating if you are into her or a wimp. If she is as hot as you say you have maybe 1 more shot before she gets bored. Do not be the reason hot chicks date ugly dudes, because they will go for the kiss. She wants you to kiss her, and do things, you need to grab your nuts, and MAN UP

 

[playerone]

Goodbye kiss to start things off for the future.

 

[horaholic]

Next time you see her, give her a hello kiss. That will make it easier later. If you want an opportunity, talk about her lip ring, look at her lips, and say 'I have to kiss you now.' Not romantic like, but casually. You dont need an opportunity, you just need to grab you pair, do it. As soon as the conversation breaks, grab her hand, pull her in, and plant one.

Dont forget the old, point at your cheek bit. Girls will almost ALWAYS go for that one. You dont need a moment. Do it once, and let her kiss your cheek. Then point to your other side "OK, over here now." When she goes to kiss your cheek, turn you head, and steal her lips. This is all done super playfully. When you're done laughing, say "yeah, I stole that. Here, you can have it back" then REAL kiss. Its EASY. This works with total strangers.

I just thought of a good one: Wait until she does or says anything cool, and say "Alright, you know what? You earned this." kiss her.

 

[Charm&Style]

You need to be the initiator, 3 dates is enough to at least land a kiss. Boost the flirting and teasing. I remember one girl i was gaming on was very similar to who you're after. When we flirted at first she would change the subject to something i really didnt care about (work/school) so the next time she did that i told her "relax" (and began massaging her shoulders), at that point i saw she was into it and began kissing the back of her neck which lead to a very enjoyable kiss.

You say shes into you so what do you have to lose. Im positive you're not after her just for conversation so you need to make your intentions clear on what you want.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Well, she's coming over tonight, so I'll post an update.

 

[Energizer]

I don't think she is insecure or shy, when a girl says the things she did, it's usually to gauge interest and lets be honest, women can't read men, just as much as men cannot read women. She more than likely is under the impression you see her as a friend and nothing more as you haven't shown all that much interest from what you have posted.