"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haven't seen her in 3 weeks, What to say to her?

PlayToWin

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Ok I will make this long, complicated story extremely short.

I went on a couple of dates with this chick, and due to some complications the dates were like a month apart basically, and unfortunately I never had sex with her even though I should have tried and probably could have on the first date. Well our last date went pretty good, but obviously didn't end in sex, and it was about a month ago. So basically in a month I called her about 5-6 times and she called me back or answered on only 2 of them. The time she answered she seemed genuinely busy and said no to an offering of basically a date. Its been 2 weeks since then and I called her twice in the week after and no answer or call back. So I nexted her, and am done with her basically in my mind and on to other chicks. However due to weird friend circumstances, I will most likely see her tommorrow along with about 10-15 mutual aquantences(sp)

I know I should act cool and aloof, and not affected by it. But what would be the best thing to say if she straight says "where have you been" or "why haven't you called me". I basically am going to go own the party and practically ignore her tommorrow while not being flat out rude, however, if she poses a question like this, then what is the best response either to save my pride in the situation of her not returning my calls, or if her interest seems to be going back up in me, then what's the best way to turn in around and have her calling me.

Basically what should I say if she says "where have you been". or "why haven't you called me", or any other possible "BS" she might say.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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yama600rr

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she's obviously not interested in you bro. if she was she would called you back a long time ago. just go to the party and have fun and forget about her. talk to as many girls as possible and make sure she sees it... dont talk to her, have some pride man!!! if she talks to you than cool, if not then fvck her.
 

Mavrick

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If you've truly nexted a woman, you'll know exactly how to act, and you wouldn't be asking this question. With that said, you haven't truly nexted her.

If you've nexted her, then she's not important to you, and you'll treat her as such. I believe that you should treat her as though she doesn't matter. If you were to call yourself on the phone, wouldn't you answer the phone or at least call back? If you didn't answer the calls, then you'd be disrespecting yourself, right? So why let someone else treat you that way? Treat her the same way. You must be indifferent to a person that acts indifferent towards you; otherwise, you're giving that person the upper-hand.

Always always always care less than the woman does.
 
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