"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Havent heard from her in a week, is she waiting on me?

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JohnChops

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Over gaming : you texting her every day, initiating every date and conversation, you sound like a try hard.

Under gaming : you Barley text until she does, 100%of the time, you never ask her out, you're too cool.

Find a happy medium. I lost girls because I was stubborn and thought I was contacting them too much when in reality I wasn't.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If she texts you, you should just assume she wants to see you. Make a date. If she doesn't agree to a definite date, get off the phone with her ASAP.

State your intent and make moves. No *****footing.
 
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