"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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havent been here in a while, back with a question

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So i haven't been here in a while actually i have to say that when you leave the site and confront your daily problems with women by yourself without the help of this site really helps and makes you learn way quicker and better, you will feel the urge to come to this site and complain/ask/cry etc.... but you gott fight it.

Ok so this is my lil question, i met this girl like 5 months ago, and we exchange numbers we talk one time on the phone for like 1 minute "she was busy" and thats it we text each other a couple times and that was it, after tat i texted her a few times and she never replied so i dropped her.

Now yesterday wihle riding home, i see the same girl at the same busstop, so i stop and i pick her up, we both were laughing right as soon as we saw each other, so i told her to come in amd i tok her to a near subway that she was going to, we talk in the car about bs etc..blah blah, and when i dropped her i asked her for the number.

This is where it gets interesting, she said " oh its the same one as last time" i told her that i had lost my old phone and that i didnt save no numbers from it, so she grabed my phone, she called her phone and then she called mine, and as she was leaving she said "buy Plain&simple" i was surprised that she rememebered my name.

So i told her that i would call her one of this days to chill and smoke a lil bit , lol she was surprised she was "oh u smoke, all interested.

What yall think about this situation, what would be the next adecuated move?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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theres not much you can do other can call her in a few days to arrange something. She seems to be blowing hot and cold on you. I've met a few that have done that to me, all friendly and interested face to face but no word when you text them. All you can do is attempt to meet up. If they flake, drop them.
 

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thanx, any other advice?
 
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