"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have you successfully gotten back a girl that previously showed no interest in you?

expos

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Have you successfully gotten back a girl that previously showed no interest in you?

I'm talking about a girl that blew you off, dumped you, etc. Could be an ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, or just some random girl that you dated.

What steps did you take to make it happen? Was it by going NC? Dropping suggestive messages, treating them like crap, making them jealous?

The thing is, I think the ability to do this can give you some confidence when pulling other girls. Knowing you have the tools to pull it off can help you reap the benefits later....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Story of my life, lol. Usually it's a mix of NC plus getting attention from another chick.
 

expos

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So...NC it is! Good to know. Spinning plates and getting attention from other women right now might help me land this HB9 back into my circle. I just want to bang her and move on.

I'm about 1.5 months removed from my last contact with HB9 - lets see what happens a couple months from now.
 
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