"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Have you seen hustlers and what do you think o f jlo now?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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EyeBRollin
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As for Jennifer Lopez, she is an example of what a lifetime of exercise, diet, sunscreen, and plastic surgery can preserve.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I disagree about her being the exception. We use “genetics” as an excuse. Minus her nose job and boob job, Jennifer Lopez is not out of the range of obtainable for a 50 year old Puerto Rican woman that exercises and eats well. Problem is most people take bad care of themselves. They eat shvt, are sedentary, and take too many drugs.
RickTheToad
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No, you are mistaken. There is a link to good genitics and good genes. It helps a lot of a person exercises and watches what they eat too.
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No, you’re mistaken. Most 50 year old people can look decent if they maintain healthy weight, exercise, keep a good diet, and wear sunscreen. J.Lo is not some freak of nature.
RickTheToad
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It's nice to dream I guess. That may be how it is on your Planet, but that's not fact on Planet Earth.
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It dont take surgery. Put good nutrition in and workout.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.