"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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have you ignore women completely yet.?

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are you guys disenchanted by those porn sites? they offer tantalizing pictures of women but these types of women don't exist in real life. No woman look that good.

I don't even believe women are real creatures anymore. They are like foggy vision possessed by a person dying of thrist in the desert. I just don't care a **** about dating anymore. F**** it
I don't even acknowledge their existence anymore. I just go on with my life enjoy it while my heart still beating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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See a therapist.
 

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You do realise porn sites and modelling photographers use computer imaging, camera angles, and perfect lighting to cover up any flaws those models have?

Many of those women could have freckles, moles, warts, etc. But they are covered up very easily.

Same goes for a weiner sizes. Camera angles allow men in porn to have 15 inchers, when they only have 5.
 

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Diplomatic, i dont know about the latter :p

but the former is certainly true, they use digital manipulation (photoshop) to give them that perfect skin you often see, they can get rid of belmishes like you mentioned, and yes that magic word you mentioned 'lighting'
 

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lol

my thoughts exactly check mate kid
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personaly, I think most of the major porn stars are less then attractice, IMO. When I was watching porn, I prefered the amature/home-made type stuff because the women had imperfactions. Seeing pics of a girl with every major flaw taken out is kind of boring.

Oh, and someone mention covering up freckles. I know a girl in my class that always has her covered up in all her pics on facebook. Or it could be because of the flash or something. Shame...she looks cuter with them.
 

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Dude you live in Toronoto

Picard, like I said, Go see the Dating Wizard aka. Michael W. The guy will teach you a thing or two.
 

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Nobody has said this yet...

STOP visting porn sites

Stop because they are making you disillusioned. Get out into the real world and you will notice the disparity between the commercial value and the real value.

Women are NOT only good for sex;)
 

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Where else are you going to see perfect representations of the female body, but digitally manipulated porn? I don't believe there is anything which can fill the spot pornography does. But that doesn't mean a real women is any less marvelous. It's just porn is a different kind of stimulation than a real women.
 

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flippinfreak said:
Women are NOT only good for sex;)
Thank god someone said that.


There is cooking, washing, sweeping, so many things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamePendo said:
There is cooking, washing, sweeping, so many things.
Good someone agrees with me
 
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diplomatic_lies said:
You do realise porn sites and modelling photographers use computer imaging, camera angles, and perfect lighting to cover up any flaws those models have?

Many of those women could have freckles, moles, warts, etc. But they are covered up very easily.

Same goes for a weiner sizes. Camera angles allow men in porn to have 15 inchers, when they only have 5.
Uhh actually world record is 12 in... but anyways ya to the thread starter more p*ssy for me thank you for that.
 

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if the record is 12 inches why did i see on some porn website some black dude with at least a 20 incher?
 

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why is it black dudes have long dong except us? Women say size doesn't matter but they want the guy with long dong. :whistle:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Because they've got testosterone running through their bones, while people who complain are lining up on the Howard Stern show with a magnifying glass.

It's not all gentics, it's about workin your ball sac, letting your body rest, staying away from the bad juju chemicals, and exercising HARD... Let your third arm swing free when your playing, start doing hard cardio, let your mind run past your body and pull your forward...

It's all health...
 
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