"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Have you guys noticed a difference with women since lifting?

FreeStyleZ

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2003
Messages
358
Reaction score
3
Im considering lifting weights soon and trying to make my body more healthy and muscular looking for myself, but was also wondering if it helped alot with women finding you more attractive. I beleive it would make me look better in clothes and have more sex appeal... did anyone else notice this? Just curious if it helps to get your foot in the door.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

MadeInTheUK

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2004
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
UK
yes deffinately...when i meet a group of girls now, i hold their attention, im the same person inside. dont really use all the DJ lines and stuff...but get a much better reaction now.

i met my flatmates friends from home a few months ago, all the guys treated me as one of the lads instantly. and the girls all flirt and want to be friends with me straight away. even asking for my number and stuff cuz 'we get on soo well'.

when i was out of shape i wouldnt get this reaction at all, would have probably latched on to the first guy that spoke to me, timidly looked at the girls and maybe chatted for abit....

It might all be about confidence tho, and only slightly what people see you as. it gives more confidence, so you will have a more dominence persona with people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top