"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have you guys heard of this technique?

Komodo

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I read in maxim that if you pick up an objext like a keychain and ask a girl what is her favorite thing like icecream,color and so on.That every time you bring out that object (like the keychain)that she would fall for you.have any of you heard about this or have read the article.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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That's a very very raw and poor example of anchoring. You anchor her feelings to the keychain. It becomes a visual anchoring.
 

thecraftylefty

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BBB is right. It's just a visual anchor. Basic NLP.

I've found the best anchoring to be that of touch. It's basically just like kino.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

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