"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have you guys heard of this technique?

Komodo

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I read in maxim that if you pick up an objext like a keychain and ask a girl what is her favorite thing like icecream,color and so on.That every time you bring out that object (like the keychain)that she would fall for you.have any of you heard about this or have read the article.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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That's a very very raw and poor example of anchoring. You anchor her feelings to the keychain. It becomes a visual anchoring.
 

thecraftylefty

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BBB is right. It's just a visual anchor. Basic NLP.

I've found the best anchoring to be that of touch. It's basically just like kino.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

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