"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have you guys ever been turned off by an OVERDRESSED woman?

Vice

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I personally feel less attracted to a woman when she is "overdressed". Let me explain.

Remember prom? Mine was about three years ago. Girls would spend HOURS at the salon getting these f*cking extravagant hairstyles that didn't even look that good.

Saw a similar thing at a club this weekend. The girl obviously put some time into her hair, but it was waaaaay too much.

Ever seen some of these movie stars wearing ridiculous sh*t that makes you lose your boner?

This just proves that most women don't dress for men; they dress for other women in a subtle competition.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree to an extent about women dressing for each other.
And a woman who wears too much makeup is a huge turnoff for me.
I want natural beauty all the way.
 

Packers2010

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i just like girls who look good. a nice dress on jeans and a jacket is fine.

a friend of mine war w jacket with jeans and a cute band shirt last week. i couldn't take my eyes off her.



also when girls have too much make up. i say this. " homer you got it set on *****"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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