have you guys been chased?

[sstype]

with all this "I am the prize" mentality being preached on this website. How many guys can vouch to having mildly to stunningly attractive girls consistently chasing you. I mean we are talking about KNOWING FOR A FACT that a girl is infatuated with you, not just her being her flirty self.

My problem is I have unattractive girls that just love me and would do anything for me, and any girl i find a slight resemblence to being attractive just wont be initially interested unless i chase her.

let hear it

 

[t00dumb]

i know the whole deal i'm the prize kinda thing. but i never really took that into consideration when i'm on the spot talking to a hb. a lot of girls chase me and like you said no the flirtatious everyday type. for me it isn't a big deal because i don't think of it much, it doesnt seem to matter if i see them couple times a week to once a month or so. just bring up the same attitude as if you're just trying to have fun for yourself even if she's the hottest thing in the world. i've have girls after me for YEARS and they still do everytime they see me. you know why? because i kept a great attitude every time i see them. when they see your great personality over a long period of time, they will tend to think you are for real of who you really are and thats what sticks to them. even strangers i've met told me that i have a great personality and it's flattering.

imho the whole rule is to keep yourself with a consistent attitude and charisma you possess and girls will truly see how great a guy you are. i'm not sure it's revelant to your topic but maybe close to it. and btw, they know i'm with someone but that doesn't stop them from chasing me

 

[Jariel]

Yes, I have had, and currently have, some girls pursuing me. Some show obvious infatuated behaviour (I recognise it because I've done it), but others have confirmed it as a fact and told me or mutual friends outright that they have feelings for me.

Some are quite attractive and one who recently admitted her feelings is very hot and I'm thinking of giving it a go with her. Her friend tells me she's had a secret crush on me for 2 years.

If you have a few average girls infatuated with you, it shows you have some very appealing qualities, which means there's a big chance attractive girls will be too...they may just be too proud to admit it.

 

[Canadiandon]

Yeah I have this Japanese girl chasing me down everywhere I go, Yes we had sex 3 months ago and then she went away on long vacation I said to her I'm not into long distance relationships and she was cool with that. Now that she is back she has been calling me non stop and wants to know where I am, but the problem is I'm dating this other Japanese girl who is really hot I mean model hot and I don't want a confrontation in the streets of Toronto if this girl sees me with my current girlfriend. You see DJing is cool but sometimes you get that stalker that just wont let go. Good news is that she (stalker) is going back to Japan at the end of September, I don't hate her but she is the older type of J-girl that is looking for a husband and I feel kind of bad for her, but she is just not my type. Yeah I would give her another go around in the sack because she is leaving soon, but running around trying to date 2 girls at once even if it is for a short period of time costs money, time and stress because I'll always be looking over my shoulder and I hate doing that sh!t!

 

[sstype]

well thanx for the replies, though i was surprised that i only got a few of them.

it just shows that a lot of guys here, no matter what kind of personality they have, are just going to have to work hard to get one girl, instead of having many girls work hard to get him.

I find myself in this situation. Maybe a drastic overhaul like bulking up will aid in making it easier...

 

[sstype]

bump, cmon guys

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by sstype
well thanx for the replies, though i was surprised that i only got a few of them.

it just shows that a lot of guys here, no matter what kind of personality they have, are just going to have to work hard to get one girl, instead of having many girls work hard to get him.

I find myself in this situation. Maybe a drastic overhaul like bulking up will aid in making it easier...

I was thinking you would get more replies too, since this is the kind of thing a successful DJ should be familiar with. Yet I get the impression that most guys here chase girls way more than they need to and still have an aura of desperation rather than truly believing they are "the prize".

You mentioned bulking and as you know by now, I am a huge advocate of that! It will increase physical sex appeal, social value, confidence, mental boldness, and will give you goals to focus on, so all this combined is definitely a good basis for a DJ and very appealing to women.

 

[griffon65]

I'd say about 70% of the girls I meet chase me. Its a combination of my looks and personality. The mentality I have adopted is that "if they are interested in me, then they will show it."