"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dip

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Have you ever sweated a girl really hard?! Now im not talkin about that cheerleader who you never talked to, or tyra banks lol, a girl who you know and all...

Theres this girl that i know and i talk to her a lot, we hang out sometimes, talk on the phone and ish...she dosent even look that good but its just her personality...im thinkin she probably likes me too because she always hints me to talk to call her when i talk to her online she says things like "hey can you call me i wanna test out my new phone" LoL or "aww man my brothers kickin me outa his room...can u call me now?"(inside joke about bein kicked out) , and she does kino on me when we chill...but i dont know if i should make the move..shes a real good friend(afc:( !!)and i dont know if i want to risk ruining the friendship because things probably wont work out and ish...but i dunno how to explain it but i just think about her a lot and stuff and its weird...did this ever happen to any of ya...and howd u stop thinkiin bout her!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just go for it. You never know what can happen in life. SHE'S the one that is bringing this on. Be the man and get her. Good luck dude.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Just go for it. You never know what can happen in life. SHE'S the one that is bringing this on. Be the man and get her. Good luck dude.
Exactly, best advice any one could give you.
 

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Yeah, I sweated this girl for like 2 and a half years until I was about 14. I got the courage to ask her out, and she said yes by some miracle. This was in my "Raging AFC" days, the relationship lasted two weeks. Probably the most signifigant turning point in my DJ life other than Pook's "Be a man!" post and discovering SoSuave.
 

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Go for it what is there to lose?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Solja J
Go for it what is there to lose?
Man, thats not the point here...im not scared to ask her out and ish ive had girls who look 10 times better then this one. I just think that I would be better off being friends with this one because its not often you find a girl like this, PLUS i'd rather have a dimepeice that i could show off to my friends:D But I just wanna get her off my head!!
 

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Originally posted by dip
Man, thats not the point here...im not scared to ask her out and ish ive had girls who look 10 times better then this one. I just think that I would be better off being friends with this one because its not often you find a girl like this, PLUS i'd rather have a dimepeice that i could show off to my friends:D But I just wanna get her off my head!!
Why not try and get her ON your head? But anyway, you said you can't stop thinking about her and want to know how to stop? Simple answer: Go for it. Otherwise, you will be sitting here all the time thinking about her.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Why not try and get her ON your head? But anyway, you said you can't stop thinking about her and want to know how to stop? Simple answer: Go for it. Otherwise, you will be sitting here all the time thinking about her.
Bingo, its the only way to get her out of your head. Its all about quality not quantity...right
 

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go for it, fail, go for it, fail, go for it, succeed.
 

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first of all.....who the hell says ish at the end of their sentences. sorry that was annoying me

well ya, i was friends with this one girl. real good friendship. i made my move but was rejected. now we are closer than ever, so i say just go for it. it wont ruin anything it might be wierd for a day but then you guys will just forget about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How deeps is your bond then if thats all it takes for her to be gone?
 

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if you go for it and it doesn't work, you'll probably just wind up in the ljbf zone anyway, so why not? i recently got convinced to ask a girl out that i probably would never have wanted to ask otherwise, and i'm lovin it! at the very least, look at it like this: it's an experience. just go for it to see how it goes.
 

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I'm gonna have to go with all the other guys. They've pretty much said it all. Just go for it and if it doesn't work out you can still be friends, right? So what've ya got to lose.
 
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