“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Have you ever tried friend zoning a girl when she goes cold?

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Kudos @Glassguy I've tried the you would make a really good friend thing a couple of times and it's never worked for me. Mind you I was never any good at ****y funny either. Just doesn't seem to be congruent with my style.
 

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Credit where it's due I think 60 years of challenge is solid. Bobby Rio s material on conversational hooks and storytelling was good. Nothing new under the sun I think that's where Tom T got a lot of his material. Chateau heartiste is great. And for general social confidence and skills leil Lowndes has a series of interesting books if you can get past her tragic New York accent

And I'm afraid I would read all of those over coach melonhead
 

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@deesade what makes Coach Corey Wayne a master is that he has a set of principles that he adheres to.

1) Once you're in a relationship, the girl should be doing 70-80% of the texting if she has high interest.
2) The man is not interested in a friendship, being her gay male girlfriend or doing things friends do like movies and lunch dates.
3) The strongest negotiating power in any relationship or business transaction is to walk away and not look back and mean it.

The idea behind data analysis and principles is that we want to be able to predict future behavior. When my last girlfriend started seeing someone else I knew it long before she told me because she violated my principles.

1) She had done 71% of the texting for the previous 6 months, and 79% over the previous 1 month when she changed (the divorce was the first change, but somewhere during her move she caught feelings for someone else). Suddenly her initiation ratio fell to 50% (what it was when we first started dating). Watch out for this, guys.
2) She asked for a lunch (versus guaranteed sex) date when I hadn't seen her in 3 weeks. She had never asked for a lunch date, she would usually say "I'm so excited to see you! How should I do my hair for you, my love?" Now it was "Oh, wait, I forgot I have court... can we do lunch?" That started a stalemate (she then offered a dinner date but said she had to know what time she would be home to help her roommate). I said no to that too. Then I asked out one more time and she said "I'm in love with someone else" and I said "I know, remember?"
3) I walked away on my terms and I feel great. She will have to reach out if she wants to ever hear from me again. She was the one who unilaterally changed the terms of our relationship.
 
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