"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have You Ever Thought of Rape?

Have You Ever Thought of Rape (even just one time counts)

  • Yes

    Votes: 23 45.1%
  • No

    Votes: 28 54.9%

  • Total voters
    51

DrRob

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Long time reader, but after reading this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90802&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

I registered, and I had to post. More specifically, I am posting referring to the post by piranha45 saying that roughly have of the guys he polled in another forum said they have at one point thought of rape?

I am wondering how common this really is because I personally cannot say I have. I think it is disgusting to think of such things, and I cannot imagine any morally-just man in their right mind thinking of such absurd thoughts.

So, have you ever thought of rape? Or day-dreamed it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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i think i asked that too and would love to see honest replies.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Adone

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Originally posted by NumenMalefic
so u r the other % who thinks about getting raped

u queer


Really mature of you. Grow up
 

NumenMalefic

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Originally posted by mroriginal
whatever man your 17 and your thinking about rape.
i am honest

while u deny ur true feelings

lied 2 urself

keep it up

when u wake up

u will know

u were never true

2 urself
 

MightyMate

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Everybody thought. Rape is mad sexy. But not rape in the hurting way like with beating up etc. Sometimes i play with my girl in rape. But it only means having sex if girl says not, and beeing a man in bed. Not beating up etc.. If You know what i mean. Just not asking for stuff, just being fast and litttle brutal.
 

spider_007

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your asking a bunch of nerds who never get laid if they ever thought of raping a gurl as a means of getting some???:confused:

what DO you thing the answer is gona be?:rolleyes:

yes i've thought about some rough sex. the knind where you take compete charge of her..... who hasn't? The once that say they never have need a penis transplant...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mroriginal

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Dude just cause im 17 and come to this site doesnt mean ive never had any ass. Not everyone has a mind like yours,Im a nerd right? try getting arrested three times for fighting, tresspassing and possession and getting kicked out of school,I know its nothing to be proud of and im white LOL! but when did you start having sex? 2 months ago?
 

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Originally posted by PurplePimp
you joke you arrest or you joke you virgin?

be man. little boy make joke

we here to learn not make joke

you wana quit that, it's getting anoying.:rolleyes:
 

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My first girlfriend had a rape fantasy that she told me about 3 months into our relationship, which she wanted me to role play out. It was actually kind of fun, but all it really was was some rough sex with her pretending to resist.

Thinking of something like rape isn't immoral. It's the same as thinking of killing someone you're pissed at, which I'm sure everyone has thought of at some point. It's a natural impulse. It's the ability to resist negative impulses that separate humans from animals.
 

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try this pick up line when ur encounter resistance in the bedroom:

Let's not turn this rape into a murder.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skel

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Its not the tought that is wrong it is the act that is wrong. I have often thought about shooting my boss in the face with a .45 but I have never done it.
 

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If there were no laws no religions about it, 99% of you guys who voted yes wouldnt think twice of raping you'd just go ahead and find any girl in the club or on the street to rape like they are your prey.
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
I would pay (despesrate for money) mike tyson to find him, rape him and **** him up the ass till his crack bleeds.then I would cut of his **** and feed it to my dog(well ok, not my dog,some homeless stray dog on the street).then I would torture him with cigarette burns and starve him to death and when hes at the endpoint of dying I would feed him some bread so he can starve for another week then I would shoot him in the legs for more pain by then he'd be dead if not I would shoot him in the head.I would also find every girl that hes ever loved and make him watch me rape them(including his mother) before I kill him.I would decapitate his entire body,burn it and put it in a garbage bag and throw it in the nearest lake or dig a hole and bury it so the police wont find it.I would also kill the girls I raped just so they wouldnt run to the police.

:D
mroriginal say this in other thread. why he lie who know. he idiot.
 

Q-Pid

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Originally posted by spider_007
you wana quit that, it's getting anoying.:rolleyes:
PurplePimp is Russian. Hence the bad English.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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