"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you ever risked it all?

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Have you ever risked it all to get what you want?

Have you ever fought for what you want?

Is there anything in the world worth risking it all for?

That one thing you care about so much and want so much, you will do anything to get?

That one thing, that you will never give up untill you get it?

Or do you just walk away and think, if its that great, it will come to me eventually?

Im not nesecarilly (cant spell that word) talking about girls altho is there a girl that youve wanted more than anyone that youve not given up in hope of getting her and youve persisted untill you got her, or even then when you find the girl that you think about alot and want so much, do you think "If shes that good she will come to me, ill just walk away untill she realises it?"

Im talking about anything in life?

Is there that one goal in life that you will do anything to get?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would you ever risk it all for one girl?

People always say on here that no girl is worth it blah blah!

But would you put everything to one side to get the girl that could be slipping away?

Would you fit for the girl you want so much!

If you want a girl so much but shes slipping away, she could be getting with someone else, even if you know she likes youa bit, would you fight for her, show her how you feel or would you sit back and walk away untill she comes to you and have the attitude "if shes so great we will get together what ever?"
 

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well its a double-edged sword.

people on here can call it AFC, but for the right woman, you can risk it all and fight and all that.

just make sure there is a damn good reason behind it.

90% of the time when the guys do that, the girl is not worth it.
 
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