have you ever noticed that the girls that you seem to be interested in never seem to be interested in you? And also that the girls that show interest in you are not exactly what you are looking for? That's how it seems to work for me.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Have you ever noticed this?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Cheiradawg
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Welcome to the world man.
Sexy_Malibu
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How bout this one? When the ones you like, are into your friend. And the ones your friends likes (who you don't like) are into you.
Ah. That's life.
Ah. That's life.
Trant
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Oh man, so true, all of it. I have two girls who are after me, neither of which I want anything to do with. Two of my friends are after them however, but the girls don't want anything to do with them either.
Sucks for everybody
Sucks for everybody
Thats along the lines of the fact that people always want what they can't have. It happens to everyone. This used to happen to me more often, but since I am becoming better and better lately, it hasnt happened as much. Right now, one of the girls that I am after, her best friend is into me very very much, but I have no interest whatsoever in her and want nothing to do with her beyond friendship. Meanwhile, that girl that I am after is into a few of my friends and not nearly as much into me.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Walden
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The one's I'm interested in is ALL OF THEM!
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Sam321 that's the story of my life.
Austin Allegro
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As the song goes, 'funny how the girls you fall in love with never fancy you/Funny how the ones you don't, do'.
Until I discovered this site I thought that to be an unalterable fact of life.
But DJ skills will help you to neutralize this situation - so stick with it!
Until I discovered this site I thought that to be an unalterable fact of life.
But DJ skills will help you to neutralize this situation - so stick with it!
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Have you noticed that some of us do not have any of these problems at all?
Examine how you treat these two groups of women:
a) The ones you want
b) The ones you dont want
The ones you want are the ones you chase. The ones you put effort in, the ones you try to impress and place alot of importance on.
The ones you DONT WANT, are the ones you dont care for, are aloof around, and can be confident around cos u dont give a fvck what they think. U know your too good for them.
Now apply your behavior toward girls in B to the girls in group A.
Funny how HB's become easy all of a sudden!
a) The ones you want
b) The ones you dont want
The ones you want are the ones you chase. The ones you put effort in, the ones you try to impress and place alot of importance on.
The ones you DONT WANT, are the ones you dont care for, are aloof around, and can be confident around cos u dont give a fvck what they think. U know your too good for them.
Now apply your behavior toward girls in B to the girls in group A.
Funny how HB's become easy all of a sudden!