Have you ever noticed this?

[JdelaSilviera]

I just wrote this in another thread, but I think it´s worth opening a new thread.

Have you ever seen how weak people suddenly act strong, when they find a weaker person? Or a shy person, that overcomes her shyness when an even shyer person arises?

That´s what you have with women, whom in general are very weak/unstable and uncapable to deal with any sort of pressure. When they are with an alpha man, they are really quiet, submissive and respectful (this is a pretty good way to see if she´s attracted to you). When they realize that a guy is weak, they behave like the biggest *****es in the world.

If she is becoming loud mouth with you, it is because she is losing attraction, and you have to make something about it.

 

[bigneil]

Good point - though some women are the loud-mouth type anyhow. One girl picked me up by making fun of my shirt, but turned out to have extremely high IL. The key is when she starts to become disrespectful you must always put her in her place, and at some point abandon ship if her behavior continues. Many women never treat anyone very nice, even boyfriends, because they can get away with it.

 

[st_99]

all good points.

 

[UnsworthK]

I completely agree with you. As it happens, this happened to me just recently, and it was because I was overly eager at showing my interest level, being needy, too much contact etc. Furthermore, I would love to know some tips on how to put up with this behaviour when it occurs in person, like when it first starts to show through. How do you keep them in line?

I lost interest level in a girl recently due to this and noticed the complete *****y behaviour as a byproduct - although she was quite loud-mouthed and shouty when she got drunk at anyone anyway.

 

[Tortendieb]

I'd say there are also girls who are naturally submissive and don't like to take charge. So she will probably not take control but still be extremely turned off.