"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you ever noticed, how, b1tches, will, post

Poonani Maker

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to their, myspace etc. pictures of themselves in the best light up against pictures of her friends not looking so great in the picture with them, like comparison/contrast to make themselves look better while her friends could probably, and do the reverse, find a couple of photos showing her in a bad light with them looking the best i.e. building themselves up.

I guarantee you that 95 out of a 100 women on the web do this: the unconscious practice of posting pictures or setting profile pics of themselves in the best light - their friends' appearance right next to them be damned!

VANITY: You play to a woman's vanity, you can have ANY woman in the sack. If their vanity is to deserve to be seen with someone as good-looking as you, play up to it, then take it away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No. I don't call them b!tches anymore either.


I'm starting not to believe in this gaming WOMEN part. Rather alpha male concept is becoming to be more realer.
 
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Never noticed that. What I HAVE noticed is that 80% of their pictures, they've taken themselves. That way they show a lovely forearm in front or a mirror shot with a camera/phone in the middle.
You'd think some of these attractive, popular women could find a second party to take a decent shot of them.
Then again, if they were popular they might not need a MySpace profile to begin with...
 
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