"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have you ever not wanted sex?

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Do you ever get the feeling that you just don't want to get laid some nights? I had sex last night, nothing spectacular in fact it was rather mediocre. Some blond girl I don't remember meeting called me the day before and I invited her over after she got on video phone and I saw she was a 10.

I cooked her dinner, some pasta with grated zucchini. I had the fireplace going since it's winter over here so we decided to roast some marsh mellows. You know it was fun and like I said earlier we had some mediocre sex.

So tonight I went out with a few friends they brought their girlfriends with them and as usual I am the only single guy there. It is fine with me because most of the times I take a girl home or bring one with me. Plus I am very good friends with most of my friends girlfriends so I am never left out.

So as I mentioned I wasn't in the mood to get laid, towards the end of the night I was sitting at the bar. My friends had gone home to get laid and I was just kicking back a few drink before going home. Out of nowhere this 8 sat beside me, I guess in the same situation as me. She sat next to me in the empty bar for a reason so I said 'hi'. We got to talking, she was very smart actually, in med school studying to be an anesthesiologist. I bought her a round and then she insisted she buy me a round. About three martinis later she begun to imply that we go up to my apartment.

I said flat out 'not tonight hunny' I just wasn't in the mood. So she gave me her number and I said I would call her.

I never really had this before, I mean I was always up for sex. I just noticed that lately unless she is extremely attractive I am no interested in sex. Anybody experienced this before? It is like I am transcending the a whole new level of sadistic bastard.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NickBe said:
...I never really had this before, I mean I was always up for sex. I just noticed that lately unless she is extremely attractive I am no interested in sex. Anybody experienced this before? It is like I am transcending the a whole new level of sadistic bastard.
It's called being selective. You don't have to poke everything that has a hole.
 

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I have become this way. Girls called me gay when they made it availible for me and I declined them or told them how i felt. I think all men should learn some selection. I'm 100% wit you here
 

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Good job man... I mean to pull girls on the spot like that... When I'm sick, I dont like to have sex... I just suck it up and by the time were going at it I get in the mood. .
 

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Honestly to quote myself...***** is the only nateral resource that will never go extinct. If you don't smash today then there will always be another one, there is always tommoro,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've had declicious food set down in front of me before but just wasn't hungry at the time. So be it. No biggie.
 

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I think everyone at some time or another has been in this situation
 

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No, I always lay any old slapper that puts her secret junk up in front of me.

Nice bragging post you got posed as a question, there.
 

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I woulda thought about it then said... what the hell i got nothing better to do.
But it's your choice, no one says you have to hit it just cuz it's there. Just like you don't have to have desert at a buffet if you already stuffed yourself.
 

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The thing is I never really felt like I did not want to get laid. It is just a foreign feeling to me but fair enough. I guess it is just being selective, hopefully it passes by the time I am going to Europe.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yepp, i once broke my leg and was crying with pain. I sure did not want it then.
 

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Yes, this is quite the predicament for those of us who've reached the pinnacle of manliness!
 

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What I do feel like is going to a swingers party but there are no good ones any time soon, at least not in Australia. I think I am going to leave Australia and head down to New York this week. There is supposed to be a good high class swingers party there on the 1st of August. That is probably what I need a good old fashioned orgy with young models and rich 40 something housewives.

Any New York DJ's going to be out and about this coming weekend?

I got access to all NY's best clubs if any DJ wants to hookup.
 

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NickBe said:
Do you ever get the feeling that you just don't want to get laid some nights? I had sex last night, nothing spectacular in fact it was rather mediocre. Some blond girl I don't remember meeting called me the day before and I invited her over after she got on video phone and I saw she was a 10.

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BS, BS, BS. Are you skiptomylou in disguise?

Come on man, I know a bulls.hitter when I see one, give it up and get a life.

The whole "cold blooded playa" thing is pathetic tbh.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
Honestly to quote myself...***** is the only nateral resource that will never go extinct. If you don't smash today then there will always be another one, there is always tommoro,
Love that quote. You are my new hero, the Someone Much cooler I've been searhing for. I will use it, practice it, live it, and, well, fvck it! That is a great frame to come from. Haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BS, BS, BS. Are you skiptomylou in disguise?

Come on man, I know a bulls.hitter when I see one, give it up and get a life.

The whole "cold blooded playa" thing is pathetic tbh.
Brits....

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Anyway like I said if there is any DJ's in New York I am going to be down there this weekend. If anybody wants to hookup and show me around New York let me know.
 

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NickBe said:
Brits....

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Anyway like I said if there is any DJ's in New York I am going to be down there this weekend. If anybody wants to hookup and show me around New York let me know.
How cutting :rolleyes: I know you're full of s.hit cos in the very post that I'm quoting you ask someone to show you around NY, but earlier you told us how you can get into any club in NY VIP.

If you're gonna lie, at least be congruent with yourself, numbnuts.
 

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L777 said:
How cutting :rolleyes: I know you're full of s.hit cos in the very post that I'm quoting you ask someone to show you around NY, but earlier you told us how you can get into any club in NY VIP.

If you're gonna lie, at least be congruent with yourself, numbnuts.

Damn!:eek:

PWNED!
 

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Yes I got 4 passes to what are said to be New Yorks best clubs my friend was there earlier in the year and he left the VIP passes with me. It says on the back..

"VIP access for the holder and friends at any time for any event."

They look like credit cards, so I can get in at any time.

Idiot....

Not so smart now are you?
 

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NickBe said:
Yes I got 4 passes to what are said to be New Yorks best clubs my friend was there earlier in the year and he left the VIP passes with me. It says on the back..

"VIP access for the holder and friends at any time for any event."

They look like credit cards, so I can get in at any time.

Idiot....

Not so smart now are you?
What are the name of the clubs?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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