"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have you ever met your dream girl?

Swoop

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Have you ever wrote down a description of everything you want in a girl, from her looks to her personality to her interests? I have done that while back and never think this person exist, but it's a good reference in knowing what I want and I find girls that has quite a few of the qualities I look for. But never in a million years would I think I can meet one that has them all. And to my suprised, I met her. Yup my dream girl exist. She even look like how I would imagine her to be. I'm shock.

Anyways, the oddest thing is. Getting her isn't as important as knowing she is real. For the first time, my heart is content. I feel a sense of happiness and freedom. I used so much energy doing approaches and meeting alot of girls lately and partying with them til I am wasted, and all I deeply desire was meeting that dream girl. Don't get me wrong, i don't think she is my soulmate. In fact, I doubt I can get her. I am actually not concern with that. It's like finding out God exist, but you don't really need him. But knowing this, gives you a sense of peace. I have that now.

Swoop
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JH6

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Good for you Swoop..

As for me.. I truely haven't found her yet. I've settled for girls.

I've gone out with girls that were 7-8's. Very very cute, but they all have some sort of a problem.

I'm not perfect, I have my problems, but there is always something that stops them from being..

"one of the three great ones"
 

Malachi

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I DID find a girl i was obsessed with,as in i wanted to be around...not like stalking or 1 itis...i just wanted to be in her company as she made me feel really good.

She had a great sense of humour and looks to die for....plus she in turn liked me.

But it wasn't meant to be...i'm still searching for my girl!!
 
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