"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have you ever met your dream girl?

Swoop

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Have you ever wrote down a description of everything you want in a girl, from her looks to her personality to her interests? I have done that while back and never think this person exist, but it's a good reference in knowing what I want and I find girls that has quite a few of the qualities I look for. But never in a million years would I think I can meet one that has them all. And to my suprised, I met her. Yup my dream girl exist. She even look like how I would imagine her to be. I'm shock.

Anyways, the oddest thing is. Getting her isn't as important as knowing she is real. For the first time, my heart is content. I feel a sense of happiness and freedom. I used so much energy doing approaches and meeting alot of girls lately and partying with them til I am wasted, and all I deeply desire was meeting that dream girl. Don't get me wrong, i don't think she is my soulmate. In fact, I doubt I can get her. I am actually not concern with that. It's like finding out God exist, but you don't really need him. But knowing this, gives you a sense of peace. I have that now.

Swoop
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JH6

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Good for you Swoop..

As for me.. I truely haven't found her yet. I've settled for girls.

I've gone out with girls that were 7-8's. Very very cute, but they all have some sort of a problem.

I'm not perfect, I have my problems, but there is always something that stops them from being..

"one of the three great ones"
 

Malachi

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I DID find a girl i was obsessed with,as in i wanted to be around...not like stalking or 1 itis...i just wanted to be in her company as she made me feel really good.

She had a great sense of humour and looks to die for....plus she in turn liked me.

But it wasn't meant to be...i'm still searching for my girl!!
 
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