"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have you ever had this kind of day before?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes it does. Attraction is all brain chemestry and a sudden change in your brain matter can make you appreciate someone that you didn't notice before. Visuals, smells, memories.... its increadible what can trigger things on the brain.
 

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its happend to me before , not over the course of a day but perhaps over a couple of weeks yes
 

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Yes, and the exact opposite too. This is why categorazing women with numbers is so subjective, and we should use a "would/wouldn't tell my friends" chart. Lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aquired taste. Example: I used to not like gin, now I do.

More reason to treat all women the same. You never know if you'll change your mind.
 

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Yes but this is not too uncommon for me. I've never been picky. My thing is, Any chick who's into me, I'll consider.
I agree with that. Women can be looked at like food. My palate has definitely expanded and
every time I visit a new country there's nothing better than sampling the local cuisine...

People ask me if I've a favorite dish (cause I can cook of course.....you like something you got to be good
at it) and I say "fvck, Italian? Chinese? Thai? France? Why do I have to choose?...

Sometimes it depends how hungry you are......but you'll always have basic limits.....i won't go near burger king or
mac donalds for example.......

Op's question........yes......happens often......nah I wouldn't turns to "ah I'd probably give her a lash"
 
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