have you ever had this before?

[randalll]

after a womans come (you havent yet) ...she just wants to stop, like 30 seconds afterwards... then goes to bed and tries to get some sleep

i asked her about it and she sais thats normal

she said something like:

"men cant carry on after theyre finished, and neither can women"

i thought women could just carry on for aaages? and if she'd just come, wouldnt she be aroused for a while and want to keep going?


randall

 

[Wiesman44]

You are correct with your assumption.


Couldn't tell u why she did that. That def. seems odd, and its never happened to me.

 

[j0n024]

It's happened a lot to me.....it is basically the same thing that happens to us, we release and become euphoric ie: relaxed and just want to relax. When I was in a LTR she would cvm then totally blow me off and say "Sorry," all the time and saying things like "Next time," to which I got tired of because to them it's not bad or inconsiderate.....maybe you should sit her down and tell her that it's bad for the relationship and inconsiderate if one cums and the other does not.....it's basically

 

[The Bat]

Dude, she's totally disrespecting you. Switch roles for a second. What if you were to finish first and fall right asleep? Oh, there'd be hell to pay next morning, I'm sure.

You need to let her know right away that you're not going to tolerate that kind of behavior (unless you are fine with it and would rather just finish to jenna jameson). Don't be mad at her though. Kindly let her know what you expect (i.e. you would like to finish with her).

Don't tolerate her cop out logic of "oh, well that's normal because guys do the same thing". I'm assuming that you DON'T finish early and go to sleep right away. Tell her that just as it's important for her being able to finish with your help, she needs to do the same for you. Any relationship, even sexual, are a two-way street, my friend.

Keep us updated.

 

[randalll]

is it true though that some women cannot actually carry on after coming? (because they're genuinely uncomfortable or find it exhausting or something) ...i mean, it was 6am when she wanted to sleep, so maybe im over reacting. we had been going about 15 minutes before she came, which isnt ages is it? then she went to bed. its the second time she's done it too

next time she's round here im gonna talk to her about it, she'll usually initiate sex after we've done foreplay... would it be wiser to tell her before or during foreplay?

 

[LostAndConfused]

Just jack off onto her tummy and/or face when she's "relaxing"