Have you ever had that one person who insists on stepping on your toes?

[writhe666]

I've lurked this forum for quite some time and from what I've read It seems that a Don Juan not is only a master seducer but also a man who controls himself in various social situations.

This guy I've known since freshman year in high-school came off as really friendly, he projected a vibe as being very trustworthy, even his friends seemed to validate this by their actions and the way they acted towards him, but his actions up till now have proven otherwise.

A couple months into freshman year we were chilling in class and i let him borrow an art magazine, i asked for it twice and he gave me believable excuses, only for me to see it torn up decorating his folder while we were walking home.

We're a couple of years out of high-school, we start hanging out with mutual friends at parties. At a certain point he insisted on criticizing the way i dress..it didn't really bother me, but it felt like he was trying to take a couple of jabs at my self confidence...

a couple of months later i pick him up to smoke some weed with me and couple of other friends. Me and another buddy supplied the weed. While we were smoking he got the ash and it was my turn to put in on weed, i'm way too stoned at this point so i just give him the prescription bottle full of weed and tell him to pack it...he empties half of the bottle, breaks it down and packs bowl after bowl with my stash...I just observe him..


a few days before i broke up with my ex he starts liking her pictures. We break up and a couple weeks later he's commenting on her posts...I know i'm not just being paranoid, but I have a strong gut feeling they're talking.

I stopped speaking to my ex two weeks ago (we've been broken up for almost two months). I won't lie to you guys i still like her, the break up was mutual and it wouldn't bother me if she moved on with another person, but this guys behavior feels disrespectful, almost spiteful. How do I deal with this guy without being violent?

 

[switch]

stop hanging out with him.
ignore him.
find better friends /companionship.

also remember the golden rule about friendship in the 21st century
Acquire
Use
Dispose

hew is useless get rid of him.

 

[sozzz]

I've lurked this forum for quite some time and from what I've read It seems that a Don Juan not is only a master seducer but also a man who controls himself in various social situations.

This guy I've known since freshman year in high-school came off as really friendly, he projected a vibe as being very trustworthy, even his friends seemed to validate this by their actions and the way they acted towards him, but his actions up till now have proven otherwise.

A couple months into freshman year we were chilling in class and i let him borrow an art magazine, i asked for it twice and he gave me believable excuses, only for me to see it torn up decorating his folder while we were walking home.

We're a couple of years out of high-school, we start hanging out with mutual friends at parties. At a certain point he insisted on criticizing the way i dress..it didn't really bother me, but it felt like he was trying to take a couple of jabs at my self confidence...

a couple of months later i pick him up to smoke some weed with me and couple of other friends. Me and another buddy supplied the weed. While we were smoking he got the ash and it was my turn to put in on weed, i'm way too stoned at this point so i just give him the prescription bottle full of weed and tell him to pack it...he empties half of the bottle, breaks it down and packs bowl after bowl with my stash...I just observe him..


a few days before i broke up with my ex he starts liking her pictures. We break up and a couple weeks later he's commenting on her posts...I know i'm not just being paranoid, but I have a strong gut feeling they're talking.

I stopped speaking to my ex two weeks ago (we've been broken up for almost two months). I won't lie to you guys i still like her, the break up was mutual and it wouldn't bother me if she moved on with another person, but this guys behavior feels disrespectful, almost spiteful. How do I deal with this guy without being violent?

FIRST PART: Dress how you wanna dress. DO NOT DO NOT let anyone tell you how to dress!!!!!! I can wear whatever the hell I want and will still break necks. It's how you carry yourself. A short story about me. My ex started acting like she's the pedestal that I needed to worship and how I should dress. I grabbed a hammer and chop that sh*t down by calling her names and gave her a warning if she tried to be a smart@ss again I'll dump/cheat on her ass. She stopped but we always fight about other stupid sh*t. I had enough n just found someone else, I got caught. .


SECOND PART: I got friends right now who are trying to chase after my ex, the thing is she found some other dude. I love watching them try. When we meet up to chill, I act like I don't know anything. I'm just loading up amunitions when I need to fireback. :crackup: Not to mention they got no game but always act like they got a ton. I tried teaching them but they ended up laughing at my advice, eversince then I refused to tell them sh*t but just listen how they hate women and how women are evil and sh*t. :kick: . They then wonder how am I keep getting a new girl every several months or year.

The word EX is used for a reason. Give it a few months and you should be good. Try and go out and hit on other girls or hang out with chill friends, not douchebags friends.

 

[writhe666]

you guys are right, I gotta quit being a chump, f-ck them.

There's vag to destroy!