"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Have you ever had situation
- Thread starter sosousage
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Stallionstud
Don Juan
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“Liked my physic”
Long story short, no. Pus$y is free, always.
Totally agree. Pvssy is free and sometimes should pay for my time.
MoreThanSmooth
Master Don Juan
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I want a woman to be telling me I'm The Man because I'm smashing her absolutely senseless, not because I'm some fat guy with a fat wallet.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know, but I think if you paid only once and then she started visiting you for free, then thats good investment
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
yea but most prostitute clients are either obese or extremaly ugly, or very bad with women. they probably dont care if she orgasms lol. if she likes a ride with you then why not repeat it?
Sorry kid but somebody had to tell you
they only hate muscular guys when they talk, they probably still chase them (like typical women do)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Von
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1) it was my first "escort" ... she gave me a second run on her time
2) it was a girl I meet at a party, kissed her there and number closed. I did nothing with the number for 2months. 2 months after the number close, I ask her on a date.. Got laid
In my building there is a escort system/driver... I know cause we see each other all the time in the garage or elevator (I usually get home from the office at the hours they go out).. Always with different girls/some drugged... and I hear the talks.
Well the girl 2... was with the guy in the elevator around 3 week's after my ONS... pure randomness..
Acted like didn't know her and vice-versa.
She never replied any of my text for a 2nd date.
... so it's possible, escort might be safer than "normal girls picked at the bar" ... sometimes it's cheaper too in $$$$. However, you'll never improve your game with a sex worker... since all you do is show money and bang.
Some of the girls were pretty good at conversation and had fun things to say
I get it if you're after the thrill. But surely trying to turn an escort into a plate is like the Mount Everest of hitting on hired guns.
If damaged slvts are your thing you can download them by the dozen off POF.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Details later, I'm drunk.
You are not muscular
RichardTheFrog
Banned
True. Do you think it would change?
Keep in mind I spend my life trying to,get rich by property flipping.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Was that your idea and money you first invested was yours? Or your dad helped tou
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I called my dad from prison in 2012 asking if he could put $50 in my account. He casually told me that he was now a multimillionaire. But as far as my current investments...
Before...
https://www.dropbox.com/s/zvzrztqevsgno4x/0901171149b.jpg?dl=0
During...
https://www.dropbox.com/s/c3r7s0fv1d1k6da/1122171105a.jpg?dl=0
After....
I'm looking through my,phone for a good picture. I'll,get one within 2 days.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Haha lmao ! what if you can cu.m 3 times in one h? do they let you to do it 3 times if you order them for one h? seems they mostly think "finish it quick so i can stop fu**king you" but I can do it 3 times after 5min break
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.