Have you ever gotten into a physical fight with a woman in your life?

[El Payaso]

Your girlfriend, wife, plate, whatever. What was the outcome?

 

[Urbanyst]

Not yet.

I really never get into heated fights with women. If they get physically aggressive I just leave the area. Then I dump them after.

Its mostly because I have this fear of a woman cutting off my penis in my sleep. So aggressive women freak me out big time and I have to dump them right away.

 

[Starting]

Yes unfortunately.

My BPD ex and I when we were living together started out great then she started to use her manipulation tactics and wanted to argue and nag all the time until one day I came home stressed as hell and she choose that day to mess with me and I lost it. The interesting thing is that afterwards she became real sweet and loving and cooking for me (which she never does). So there's that. I don't condone violence tho.

 

[Serenity]

Nope, never. I don't fight unless physically attacked, which have not happened.

 

[TheProspect]

Edit: Removed for privacy reasons.

 

[bigneil]

One time in March 1997 (20 years ago exactly) my then gf of 4 years was drunk and started trying to punch me but I was just laughing at her and deflected her attempted blows. That was the closest I ever came to fighting a girl.

God made men bigger so they could defend women, not attack them.

 

[Infern0]

Your girlfriend, wife, plate, whatever. What was the outcome?

No although my mum tried to stab me with a fork for telling her she was being rude giving my dad the silent treatment.

Is that close?

 

[TheProspect]

God made men bigger so they could defend women, not attack them.

Violence against any gender is wrong.

I know plenty of examples of dominant women abusing their partner. Some women are bigger than some men, some are just more willing to engage in violence. They do this either because they know they can get away with it or because they crave power and control. Today's society allows them to get away with it for the most part too.

Not advocating violence against anyone but your virtue signalling is invalid.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I once had a crazy gf who flipped out one day and tried to stop me from leaving her apartment during a fight. I was trying to be patient, but I was getting tired of being scratched. I threw her across her bedroom, thinking I was being nice because I aimed for the bed, which I did hit quite accurately, but she bounced off of it and hit the wall behind her bed like a bird flying into a window.

 

[El Payaso]

When I was 17 my girlfriend at the time and I had a huge fight over paying for a McDonald's breakfast meal that started with us yelling at each other in the front seat of my car. It turned into a full-scale food fight, and after I whipped a hasbrown at her face point blank (the hashbrown shattering on impact) she positioned her body in her seat to boot me in the face with her ugg boots like 5 times before I finally place a well timed backhand (that actually landed as a karate chop) on her face which ended the altercation.. we were both silent as I drove her home and it was awkward as hell and now I get flashbacks whenever I'm with someone who orders hash browns

That is some funny sh!t.

 

[El Payaso]

I once had a crazy gf who flipped out one day and tried to stop me from leaving her apartment during a fight. I was trying to be patient, but I was getting tired of being scratched. I threw her across her bedroom, thinking I was being nice because I aimed for the bed, which I did hit quite accurately, but she bounced off of it and hit the wall behind her bed like a bird flying into a window.

Damn. Lol. I hope she was okay.

 

[dustmuffin]

I always just leave if things get heated.

 

[dude99]

Your girlfriend, wife, plate, whatever. What was the outcome?

In my youth I dated a violent girl who would slap kick punch and throw objects but as society taught my generation growing up, no matter what you never lay a hand on a girl or woman. I would just always leave. Before my red pill days i didn't know i was in an abusive relationship because " it wasn't abuse if the guy was being trashed."

 

[jimjam]

How bout this: my ex wife was crazy, borderline, depressed, insecure, multiple personalities, you name it. Anyway, i forget what i was dreaming about, but i was talking in my sleep and I woke up to her slapping me on the face repeatedly, accusing me of infidelity, which wasn't true. I had to push her away from me. Another time we got into it about something, I raised my fist, was ready to let her have it right in the mouth. Then I realized hitting her was exactly what she wanted and what she EXPECTED me to do. Like hitting her was just another way of showing affection or something. I mean, I could see it in her eyes that's what she wanted. Sick. I walked away and drank a beer. Ha! Another time she tried to jump out of a moving car. I could write a book about her. She was a real fvcking whacko. Nutjob. One of the best things I did in my life was divorcing her.

 

[Alpheta]

I don't want to be that guy but ive always wondered about getting physical with a woman in an argument/conflict. Like some posters said above, its interesting how their girlfriend would become a puppy after the odd smack.

Who made this rule of ' don't hit a girl' I get it, getting violent isnt the best idea but life has never worked like that. We all know that women dont go for men who are nice and good to them. Although in a perfect world (disney) the woman would be head over heels for the guy who does everything for her. My point is, although getting violence logically IS a bad thing, maybe it isnt BAD so to speak in a relationship? Maybe its a desire to be smacked around (not beaten) when she does something wrong?

Just a thought.

 

[FwoGiZ]

9 years ago, I had to arm lock my BPD ex and escort her outside my home because she had went crazy while drunk. She then proceed to drop kick my glass front door in a mini skirt, tossed the garbage all over my car then I called the cops.
Cops showed up, then I unlocked the door and they (girl cop) said "You called us just for that?"
If I had made the mistake to lay hand on her, I might still be in jail.
Always try to defuse, de-escalate the situation when things are about to get rough. It's never worth it. Trust me. And that goes for men/women.

If I ever feel threatened tho, men or women, I will defend myself. Nothing infuriates me more than a girl hitting a guy just cause she thinks she can get away with it... They wanted equality so here we go.

But my advice is any of this ever happens to you guys, arm lock her, escort her outside and lock yourself in... probably wise to call the cops right after and to not open the door until they're there.

 

[bigneil]

Some men might get abused by women - but they should leave them, not whine and say there are male victims too.

 

[playa99]

When I was 17 my girlfriend at the time and I had a huge fight over paying for a McDonald's breakfast meal that started with us yelling at each other in the front seat of my car. It turned into a full-scale food fight, and after I whipped a hasbrown at her face point blank (the hashbrown shattering on impact) she positioned her body in her seat to boot me in the face with her ugg boots like 5 times before I finally place a well timed backhand (that actually landed as a karate chop) on her face which ended the altercation.. we were both silent as I drove her home and it was awkward as hell and now I get flashbacks whenever I'm with someone who orders hash browns

That's funny dude!

I got slapped once by a girl I used to see because she found one of my tops in her sisters washing!

My Dad had a bi-polar GF who used to smack & throw things at him, it's something I find intolerable.

 

[TheProspect]

Some men might get abused by women - but they should leave them, not whine and say there are male victims too.

Just like women should quit whining and leave their abusers too. Common sense right? Too bad it doesn't always work that easy in reality. Someone who is related to me is a complete piece of sh!t who abused the mother of his kids for 10 years through violence, rape, forced drug use, fear, intimidation, and even stuffing a loaded gun in her mouth. Any rational person would say she should have left him before it got to that point. I guess because you're this 6'5 ultimate fighter who's never lost a fight you've never experienced what she went through (or anyone who was abused) so it's easy for you tell people who are abused to quit "whining" stop being a "victim" and leave.... there is so much psychology that comes into play regarding emotional and physical abuse (doesn't matter if you're male or female) that you seem to be ignorant of. I personally think there's no difference between emotional and physical abuse because the intent is the same.

Being a man doesn't mean you can't get abused or that you are more immune to abuse or that it's any easier to walk away.

And if you're referring to me as a "male victim" I have fortunately never been a victim of any physical or incessant emotional abuse by anyone. But I've witnessed it firsthand. Emotions are incredibly strong, and male or female, they will prevent you from acting rationally all the time.

Every man who posts here about a crazy ex with BPD has went through some form of emotional abuse caused by a women. It's not as easy when you're in it to just walk away. We don't tell them stop "whining" and playing the "victim" just because they are a man, we understand them and help them develops tools and new perspectives on life.

Again not advocating violence, just sick of hearing this bullish!t everywhere that women are untouchable because they are women and that men are naturally capable of walking off abuse like it's nothing because they are men.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Violence against any gender is wrong.

Yes, but so is violence against perfectly good hash browns!