"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Have you ever dated a woman who has a PhD in Psychology?

wwfdsm

New Member
Joined
Oct 1, 2013
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Hello guys,

I'm newbie here but been checking your words now & then :)

So, have any of you ever dated a woman who has a PhD in psychology?
Well, I know her for 2 months now, and maybe is too "early" to find out any
"psy-tricks" or whatever, being used from her. She seems quite honest but
more than anything else she is an intelligent woman.

Before spreading some more of my ideas, let me hear your facts about it or
ever your own experiences, if any :up: !
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Tictac

Banned
Joined
Jul 28, 2009
Messages
3,668
Reaction score
1,244
Location
North America, probably an airport
Sure. I dated a psychiatrist for some time a couple of years back. Very intelligent woman and as smokin' as she was educated.

If she's intelligent, she's not using psy-ops on dates. She's exasperated with those around her treating her like a disembodied intelligence. She is a woman and wants to be treated like one.

So treat her like a woman, not a Ph.D.
 

wwfdsm

New Member
Joined
Oct 1, 2013
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Tictac said:
Sure. I dated a psychiatrist for some time a couple of years back. Very intelligent woman and as smokin' as she was educated.

If she's intelligent, she's not using psy-ops on dates. She's exasperated with those around her treating her like a disembodied intelligence. She is a woman and wants to be treated like one.

So treat her like a woman, not a Ph.D.
Yep, that's the deal so far. Just wondering, since it's my first time with psycho-expert woman.
As you already know, most of techniques or articles here, are based on psychology facts and secret roads.

And as about your advice, to treat her like a normal woman, i'm sure she is getting it all over.
I mean, we have fun, cool dates, interesting talks etc. But more than anything, teasing, when there should be :D

She enjoying when she is learning NEW stuff and ideas from me. She is already well-educated all around,
and when you can teach such a woman new things of life, she is getting really excited .. :woo:
 

Tictac

Banned
Joined
Jul 28, 2009
Messages
3,668
Reaction score
1,244
Location
North America, probably an airport
Take her to do the things you enjoy doing already. Your natural enthusiasm will be obvious. Then, throw in some things you've been wanting to do. As you listen to her, throw in dates for places and things she has revealed that interest her.

As for her, instigate, isolate, escalate. What she wants to know that she is desired.
 

wwfdsm

New Member
Joined
Oct 1, 2013
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Tictac said:
Take her to do the things you enjoy doing already. Your natural enthusiasm will be obvious. Then, throw in some things you've been wanting to do. As you listen to her, throw in dates for places and things she has revealed that interest her.

As for her, instigate, isolate, escalate. What she wants to know that she is desired.
Agree..
Maybe just putting myself quite honest & decent to hers, would be the best movement. I mean, although I'm aware of lots of psychology manipulation techniques, she could smell that sh*t ! Non that I ever needed that stuff but just saying that a woman with a PhD in psycology, would be very careful and known of these tacticts herself.

Who knows ... maybe she is already been "sketching" my psycho profile, like big companies do some tests with their employees...LOL :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top