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Have you ever cussed at a girl during gaming?

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here is my field report which i cussed at 2 girls


i was in walmart, i see an hb7 and i call her by cindy as she walks by but she just ignores me and strolls her cart past, i then saw her in another isle

dj:hey cindy whats up
hb7:im not cindy
dj: oh, wow you look like this girl i know exactly like her
hb7: oh nope, people tell me i look like some1 they know alot
dj: haha what a coincidence, did i creep you out calling you cindy?
hb7: oh, no you didn't i thought you were talking to someone else
dj: oh nice interesting
hb7: (she turns to leave but not fully)
dj:so whats your name?
hb7:um, why do you want to know my name?
dj: im just being friendly so whats your name?
hb7:i dont like to give out my name to strangers, i have a bf
dj:i didn't ask if you have a bf
hb:....
dj:well im not a stranger, my name is DJ be polite and tell me yours
hb7:um, its okay
dj:why are you being so b1tchy for?
hb7: (she looked shocked) excuse me?
dj: you heard me
hb7: (looked flustered)
dj: (i walk away)



i then see an hb7.5 shopping in another isle, i walk up to her right away

dj: hey whats sup
hb7:*ignores*
dj: im doing a college project for sociology
hb7: um ok
dj: how many guys have you rejected this week?
hb7: i dont know
dj: how many guys approach you this month?
hb7: (she turns around)
dj: wtf why you being so rude, im being friendly
hb7: im not (she walks away)
dj: (i see her in next isle and walk up) hey
hb7: im not being rude
dj: i know you told me that
hb7: yah(turns around and begins to walk)
dj: why are you being a fucc1n b1tch, you fucc1n h0e!!!
hb7: -she walks away saying something like,"sure"-

as i walked away i was laughing and then i see an hb8 over heard the conversaton and she looked at me with ioi's

feedback and your field reports appreciated
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Uh... dude, you need to keep your temper in check. They've done nothing wrong. In fact, you're doing it all wrong in your initial approach to begin with. What exactly do you expect out of cussing at a girl?

you "why are you being such a fvcking b1tch, you fvcking h0?"
her "oh damn, I guess I didn't realize how much of a catch you were until you called me a fvcking h0!"

Let me be the first to tell you:

You're doing it wrong.
 
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HAHAHAHHAHA god I wish I was there to see this! :)

happens to all of us:)

been there- kudos for telling the ***** what you thought.

The other HB 8 at the end must have liked you because you didn't hide how you felt about other people! hahah

one man's sorrow is another man's happiness
 

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This dude's been here for a few days, his threads have been so bad that they've all been locked, and yet they refuse to ban him.

9 out of 10 times, I just ignore the trolls. But since I'm here, I figure I'll call out the moderators on this. Just get rid of the guy. Please. Thanks.
 

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you are getting bad reactions...b'coz your not saying anything interseting,
these arn't gonna get peoples attention; they are not fun, jokey or ****y n funny...
these are very "un socialy calibrated" things to say (its not flowing either - very random questions), and i just can imagine you saying it with really bad body language in a creepy way too

THEN you start swearing at them...WTF?

i think you need to go back and learn being able to converse with people...

a question djprophet - what were you trying to acheive (what was the angle you were comming from) with saying these things?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Iceberg said:
This dude's been here for a few days, his threads have been so bad that they've all been locked, and yet they refuse to ban him.

9 out of 10 times, I just ignore the trolls. But since I'm here, I figure I'll call out the moderators on this. Just get rid of the guy. Please. Thanks.
all my threads been locked? only 1 has been LOL
Your ignorant and your post was meaningless
 
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I don't know if this guy is a troll or not, but being POSITIVE is the key man. You're showing too much negativity, especially at a initial approach. For women, it's about how we make them feel that makes them attracted.

Come off negative, then they will respond in a negative manner.
 

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djprophet said:
all my threads been locked? only 1 has been LOL
Your ignorant and your post was meaningless
anyways im not here to argue with people im here to learn.
if you're going to call someone ignorant you should at least learn to spell
 

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djprophet said:
anyways im not here to argue with people im here to learn
I don't know if this is true or if you're a troll... But hey, I ll give you some constructive criticism if you really wanna learn. Comments in bold


djprophet said:
here is my field report which i cussed at 2 girls


i was in walmart, i see an hb7 and i call her by cindy as she walks by but she just ignores me and strolls her cart past, i then saw her in another isle

Maybe this could work in a crowded environment, where you are physically touching the girl or almost so it's obvious you're talking to her even though you're calling her by another name. I can totally understand why she ignored you in a wide open type environment like walmart.

dj:hey cindy whats up
hb7:im not cindy
dj: oh, wow you look like this girl i know exactly like her

you could have started with this, no need to call her by a fake name

hb7: oh nope, people tell me i look like some1 they know alot
dj: haha what a coincidence, did i creep you out calling you cindy?

this is where your approach failed. Never ask a girl if you creeped her out unless you've established some massive amount of rapport with her. Even if you didn't creep her out before, by saying this now you definitely did

hb7: oh, no you didn't i thought you were talking to someone else
dj: oh nice interesting

this is were you lost any chance of success. Instead of jumping into another random topic to diffuse the awkward moment you created with your earlier comment, you just let the conversation die. What do you expect, for her to bring up a new topic to discuss with a creepy guy she met 30 seconds ago at wal-mart?

hb7: (she turns to leave but not fully)
dj:so whats your name?

are you conducting a police interrogation? What were you gonna ask her next, her biographical information and her fingerprints? Again, poor choice of conversation topic. I never ask a girl's name, instead she offers it to me when her interest level is high enough

hb7:um, why do you want to know my name?
dj: im just being friendly so whats your name?
hb7:i dont like to give out my name to strangers, i have a bf
dj:i didn't ask if you have a bf

probably the only good line you spit at her, but you had already lost her by this point

hb:....
dj:well im not a stranger, my name is DJ be polite and tell me yours
hb7:um, its okay
dj:why are you being so b1tchy for?

totally uncalled for, she's not being bi.tchy, she's just creeped out by you

hb7: (she looked shocked) excuse me?
dj: you heard me
hb7: (looked flustered)
dj: (i walk away)



i then see an hb7.5 shopping in another isle, i walk up to her right away

dj: hey whats sup
hb7:*ignores*
dj: im doing a college project for sociology
hb7: um ok
dj: how many guys have you rejected this week?
hb7: i dont know
dj: how many guys approach you this month?

I've tried the "college project" approach before with good success. I just feel like you came out as too aggressive considereing the setting. This would have worked better for night game. You need to soften up your game during the day, focus more on building rapport

hb7: (she turns around)
dj: wtf why you being so rude, im being friendly

no need to use the F word. you lost all hope with that

hb7: im not (she walks away)
dj: (i see her in next isle and walk up) hey
hb7: im not being rude
dj: i know you told me that
hb7: yah(turns around and begins to walk)
dj: why are you being a fucc1n b1tch, you fucc1n h0e!!!

weak

hb7: -she walks away saying something like,"sure"-

as i walked away i was laughing and then i see an hb8 over heard the conversaton and she looked at me with ioi's

those were definitely not ioi's, she was just thinking "if this guy comes my way, should I call security or dial 911 straight up?"

feedback and your field reports appreciated
Cussing a girl out will not improve your chances with her during a game day situation when you barely met the chick. Nor will it improve your chances with other chicks nearby that hear you call a woman a "fvcking hoe"

hope you learned something. You're welcome.
 

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@iliketennis, LOL ignorant just like iceberg

@drak, kudos for your "constructive criticism", the hb8 was actually smiling at me btw
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iceberg said:
This dude's been here for a few days, his threads have been so bad that they've all been locked, and yet they refuse to ban him.

9 out of 10 times, I just ignore the trolls. But since I'm here, I figure I'll call out the moderators on this. Just get rid of the guy. Please. Thanks.
snitching is what's hot?
 

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dj: haha what a coincidence, did i creep you out calling you cindy?

This quote is funny.
 

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omega05 said:
snitching is what's hot?
Understand the concept of snitching first and then talk about it.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Understand the concept of snitching first and then talk about it.
what's the problem? instead of just ignoring the guy's posts, he wants to call a mod to ban the guy.
 

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So a random guy who is stripping, mooning, and molesting your mother as she is coming home from walking down the street while your paralyzed on a chair can easily be ignored? Oh wait, don't call the cops because that would be snitching.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SeymourCake said:
So a random guy who is stripping, mooning, and molesting your mother as she is coming home from walking down the street while your paralyzed on a chair can easily be ignored? Oh wait, don't call the cops because that would be snitching.
stop trying to justify yourself, you dont make any sense

@omega, thanks that is true
 

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SeymourCake said:
So a random guy who is stripping, mooning, and molesting your mother as she is coming home from walking down the street while your paralyzed on a chair can easily be ignored? Oh wait, don't call the cops because that would be snitching.
NO SNITCHIN N1GGA NO SNITCHIN!
 

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djprophet said:
stop trying to justify yourself , you dont make anysense
thank god he doesn't have down syndrome like you. There is nothing in the quote above that doe not drip with mental retardation.
 

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drewsg said:
Next time punch her in the face
Drew, you're simplifying it way to much. Here's what's up:


if they don't respond to your direct game make sure you flip her with some neg hits, then kino her in non-sexual areas (chest, pelvis, feet, face etc.)
after you've escalated a little go for the kiss close -- don't be afraid to slip a finger in her as$, either. Chicks dig unpredictability.


THEN go for the fist-close (aka punch her in the face).

Hope this helps.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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