"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you ever considered...?

Grey Fox

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Have you ever considered what would happen if all of a sudden the guys going to the clubs and bars went there just looking to have a good time and get their drink on, not there game on?

Have you ever considered what might happen if a man started to judge women, good looking or not, not simply by her looks but by her personality and social skills?

Have you ever considered what might happen if a guy rather than trying to play games with a woman purely in the game to seek nothing but attention, played no games to win her over at all?

Have you ever considered what it might be like to be the one who chooses rather than the one to be chosen?

Have you ever considered what it would be like to schedule your dates based around your own schedule, and not schedule it around her schedule?

Have you ever considered doing rather than asking for advice every step of the way?

Have you ever considered basing your personal happiness not on the acceptance of others, but on your own self-acceptance?

Have you ever considered any of this?

Just something to think about maybe.

-Grey Fox
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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