Have you ever been with a married woman?

[matius]

Hi-

I don't think it's a very cool or noble thing to do. But I know this girl whos husband is away for long periods of time. She calls often and begs for attention...I let her in (hung out) for a bit this week and she acts as though we are in a relationship. This was really just one day of hanging out and putting our hands on each other.

I refuse to let that happen again because I'm not turning into the husband minus the sex. Is it my duty to step out of this before more happens...? Or is it their relationship - not mine?

She could just be playing with me to feel wanted or attractive- that's fine- but I have other women so I'm not going to be a great test subject. I think she really wants it.

I'm just rambling here...asking some questions to myself...wondering if anyone else has been in this situation.

 

[BobbDobbs]

I think it is shocking shocking shocking to be hanging out with a married woman -- so send her my way.

 

[matius]

You get with married women all the time huh

 

[BobbDobbs]

Look, if you have morals problems with it, why ask here?

If it is against your morals, don't do it.

If it isn't against your morals, take the shot.

 

[matius]

...Enough Said

 

[strollsrus]

I am interested in a Married Woman myself. I have been dealing with her for several months now and the whole situation is killing me. Back in the begining I would have shagged her, but now my Morals have caught up with me.


I would like to see signs that married woman show that they want you instead of there husband. But I know this is not a popular subject around here, but I want this woman and I can only hope she will leave her husband soon.

I worked with a woman who was always talking about how she just loved her husband so much it's was sicking actually how she went on and on how she was so much in love with him. Next thing you know she is getting a divorce and she is giving the guy who fixes our elevators blow jobs at the office.

Does anybody want to tell us any signs that a married woman is actually hot for somebody other than there husband and that they may leave him for you?

 

[WestCoaster]

A DJ should never need a married woman

First off it's against my morals and I don't want to go down that path.

The path I want to go down is why should a tried and true DJ ever need a married hag, period?! And I don't care how hot she is, you don't need that sneaking around stuff. Plus, if you break up her marriage and she goes toward you, she's gonna do the same thing to you. If you don't think that, I have a bridge in South Dakota to sell you.

But most importantly, a skilled DJ should be able to attract all kinds of SINGLE women. When I got into grad school I discovered this site. Being an older grad student I was worried I couldn't date the young hotties. Sosuave pulled me out of it. I dated one gal half my frickin' age (yeah, she was hot), a REAL hot grad student who won a beauty pageant for her state and was in the Miss America pageant, a cute/funny gal who was 13 years younger than me, and a gal with an Amazon body about 16 years younger than me. All because of DJ skills -- period.

Why would I even bother with married women when I can do that? By the way, I'm a little out of shape right now and not the most handsome guy on this planet, or the wittiest, or the funniest, or even the best DJ. I just know enough skills to get dates -- still working on getting more toward the LTR stuff.

But married women? Why? You're better off reading the articles here and trying to hit on women of all ages! Sh-t, if I can do it, anyone can. I ain't no Player Supreme!

 

[matius]

Well, I have other single girls. I guess I just want to eat my cake too.

If I knew I was going to be away for months or years at a time...I don't think I would have gotten married. Or I would of had some sort of understanding with my wife. Because to me it seems that all the time I'm away she would become resentful.

You think she really digs the dildo more than a rod.

I ain't no Player Supreme either...but I'm learning and finding out what it takes godnabbit.

 

[HighLowJack]

Married woman that mess around on there husbands are looking for something that there husbands are not providing. Chances are they've been missing something for a long time. When they finally decide to let down there morals and go looking for "that something" in an another man, there already desperate for it. The only thing that can bring a woman to the point of adultery is desperation.

Now lets say your an AFC, and aren't doing real well with the lady's. You meat this married woman that never seems to be around her husband. She's acting very very single, and your surprised she is married ones you find out. Chances are your just as desperate for the very same thing she's desperate for.

1 emotional bonding
2 companionship
3 Sexual fulfillment
4 someone that really understands them.

The lady may have been married for a long time and the relation ship has stalled. Chances are she wasn't planing on messing around on her husband. You were there, and he wasn't. You were desperate and you went along with it.

Iv been there, and it was desperation on both are parts. We both felt guilty after we bonded. But a lot of times its too late. If you fall in love, then your going to be torturing your self. Do you really want to be looking over your shoulder all the time? Heck with that.

If you guys really like each other, then she should leave him. Then you guys can date like normal and see if things work out. What if it doesn't work out with you two, and she left her husband for nothing? Wow!!! That would be huge.

Usually Adultery ends up in a train wreck.

 

[spanky]

I am in touch with one of my exs who is in a bad marriage. I am having trouble handling all of the complaints about the husband and how he is this and that but here she is still married to the dude. I try my hardest to change the subject but somehow it gets back to the complaints and sob stories.

What makes me uncomfortable is that she keep saying stuff about when we were together and stuff.

Although I really do like this chic as a friend, she makes me uncomfortable with all of the hints us possibly sneaking around. She called me just the other day. We were talking for about 30 minutes and all of a sudden the broad whispers "oh, my husband is home." I was like, wait, this ain't no affair but somehow it feels like it.
I ain't with the whole infidelity thing. More power to those who can handle it but it just ain't my style.

But after ignoring her for about 3 years now and feeling bad about it, I haven't figured out how to get out of this. I would look like a complete @$$ if I just all of a sudden started ignoring her calls again.

Anyway, married women just seem like trouble.

 

[WestCoaster]

Again, a good DJ doesn't need this thorn bed

All of you guys on this board are either DJS, DJs in the making, or someone who is intrigued by the philosophy. Somehow this whole DJ thing means something to you. It means a helluva lot to me.

That said, once you even grasp one ounce of DJ abililty, there's no reason to go down this path. Yep, I've had married women flirt with me. In college, this married gal was always flirting with me, and she was pretty hot. Luckily I wasn't stupid -- and I was an AFC at the time. Just yesterday I had a woman I was conversing with tell me to stop by her work place on campus (same campus I work at). She was cute, mentioned her kids, and at last look had an enormous ring on her finger. I don't think I'll visit. Why should I when I have single women showing interest?

All of you DJs, DJ's in-training, or DJ wannabes here are better than you think. I posted above a short history of some of the gals I dated in grad school. Not to beat myself up or anything, but I am not Robert Redford or quick-witted with women, I'm horrible at any kind of pickup lines. What I do have is this confidence that I think a woman -- any woman -- would be lucky to be dating me (got that from the DJ site, too!).

This attitude attracts women and if you carry this attitude you don't ever need to pay attention to married women, and you can date just about any kind of woman you want, inside or outside your age-range, or what you thought your previous beauty level was.

Stay away, far, far away from married women. And yes, they prey on helpless AFCs.