CapedCrusader08
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Again, I wouldn't even know if someone is attracted/interested in me. I don't know. Do I come off as shy or unaproachable,or are girls just *****es?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You're horrible! How could you use her like that?Duffdog said:I don't know about never taking the initiative. Just yesterday there was this girl over to see my roommate, she brought a "friend"... ugh. So anyways, she tried absolutely everything to get me. And it was so overt it was crazy-- she asked if I was hungry, left and bought dinner for me, brought it back to my house, served me, cleaned my house and then stared at me from the couch across the livingroom for an hour while I ignored her. She then blurts out "I think I have a crush on your roommate" (me) to my roommate in a kinda sorta way that she didn't think I could hear. I then turn to her and say:
"To date me, you must satisfy the following three prerequisites: You must be blonde, size 0-6 and drive a BMW. Currently, you have no chance."
I think that AFC's do take the initiative, but its so misguided and sad that their target has no choice but to stomp on them.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonJuan11 said:Don't put them down, I doubt you look like Brad either.
The reason the less attractive girls are more aggressive in going after what they want is that they have less options. It's the same reason guys like the hotter, thinner, girls, as they are more scarce. Just like anything in life, if you are scarce and have value, your price goes up. That's why I never understand when guys say the hot girls never get hit on or wish they weren't hot. It's almost like saying the rich kids wish they weren't rich, makes no sense. The better looking guys who are jocks always make sure they sex the hot girls hard and fast, the never go after the less attractive, by-in-large overweight ones.
Does you ego get bruised if a more overweight, less attractive girl doesn't return your call or cancels on you? Of course not.
Does your ego get bruised if a hot, thin girl that everyone wants tells you where to go? More than likely
I hope you are joking. I didn't do anything, I just let this female attempt to buy my affection. When I stomped on her self esteem, you would think that she would give up...but nooooooo, she keeps trying to win me over. Much like any hot girl will do with a chump guy. As far as I am concerned, hot guys are allowed to be mean just like hot girls are allowed to be *****es.2.0 said:You're horrible! How could you use her like that?