Have you ever been dumped because of the afterpill ?

[JohnyTheArrow]

It happened to me twice.Sex ... condom slipped and the girl has to take the afterpill.Very soon the break up follows.Getting pregnant is always deep in the mind of the girl you ****, even if it doesn't happen because of the pill or condom,even if she doesnt plan it, even if it is 'just sex' - there is still this 'magic' thing.When there is screwup it's like waking up from the dream and subconsiously 'killing a baby' for a woman.The second girl not only refused to take the afterpill risking pregnancy but she also accussed me of 'never wanting children' and 'fear to have children' very soon she cheated on me with some other guy and left me.

If you tell the girl she must take afterpill, expect the break up soon or cheating on you, this is at least my experience.There is nothing more killing the romantic and sexy mood as the afterpill.You may think you are responsible and logical not wanting unplanned pregnancy but chicks see it rather like 'he isnt serious about me' 'he doesnt want to have babies with me'.

 

[WanderingMan]

My experience is the opposite: they take the morning after pill, then business as usual.

I haven't had to have any long-long term relationships take the morning after pill. That may be the difference. Otherwise, I've never really had any issues with it.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Also they hate when you are religious about condom use.

Because if you use condoms you are in control.If you don't they are - and they know it.