"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have y'all ever talked to someone to point you've lost interest?

OJN_98

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Example, there's this one girl I'm talking to but lives a few hours away and is going to the same college as me this fall, it got to point where she opened up and even said she was buying candy panties and save it for me to "eat" in the fall + a lot more freaky talk. Although these are obviously good signs I feel that talking too much with little action leads to waning interest. Albeit I was thinking that it might comeback once I actually get to see her face to face.

With that being said, have y'all ever just lost interest when talking to people?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wifehunter

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It's normal. Humans work that way. That's why it's very important to be as dull and boring as possible!!!:p
 

narcissist

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Of course. I just lost interest for this Russian girl I am sleeping with, because she is manifesting strange behaviours and her insecurities are starting to emerge. So I have to let her go.

Perfectly normal thing. People always hid their insecurities and inner snakes, and of course once they emerge from the depths your interest will inevitably wane.
 
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