Have to see bpd ex

[captain55]

i have to see my bpd ex tomorrow to sign some paperwork. She’s been trying to Hoover me for a while and I’ve succesfully avoided her but now I have no choice.

I successfully left the relationship. The problem is I’m too forgiving person of a person and I get over **** too quickly.

Really hope I don’t have a weak moment and try to bang her. She’s sexy but I can’t get involved with this woman for my emotional health.i already know she’s probably gonna show up in some heels and tight pants all done up

 

[captain55]

For the record for all the guys that have been ****ed over by borderlines, that’s not nearly as painful as having to leave one. The real mind **** is this- i have to leave a drop dead gorgeous woman that lives only 10 miles away to rot away. I don’t want her back but part of my does feel somewhat guilty for bailing on her even though it’s not my job to save her and I owe her nothing. Man sometimes I just ask myself...if only she were normal.

 

[Speculator E]

My previous BPD was what I would consider my soulmate and in the end I had to let her go, so I can relate. Without the BPD she would've been perfect. What I've learn is that you can't save people from themselves if they don't want to. It's a harsh truth, but you have to face reality if you want to be successful.