"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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asid12345678

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What up Players! Since the last time I posted on here,I have been with 11 women,all 7+ in the last 15 months (post breakup). I'm 21.

I'm slightly tired of fwb's and ons's at the moment though. And last night, I went on a REAL date (real meaning sex was really not my objective) since my breakup and it went quite good. It's a girl from my class. We were out until late night,had a comfortable amount of kino (mostly from my side but she didn't seem to mind),and alot of "lets go cyclng together,lets go to this place,that place"etc were said by her so she was clearly interested. And she was EXTREMELY curious about my past relationships (going as far looking at pictures of my exes on facebook in front of me).
But at the same time it's not like she's always texting me or replying to my messages right away.

I've always gotten good advice from sosuave and last time I posted last year, I had only been with 1 girl and now the score is 11. I am proud to say that most of the "techniques" I learnt was from this website.
She knows I have alot of female friends and she seems to have a lot of male friends too, but she seems my type, I dont want her to think of me as a gay buddy and nothing either of us said suggested that. How do you guys think I should proceed with this one? This one isn't my dream girl or 10/10 but she's the cute and fun type.

If it doesn't workout then I have enough fwb's at the moment to moment to keep my needs satisfied so it's not a desperate situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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asid12345678

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Update:
We exchanged a few texts the night after our date.

Her-I'm going to taiwai

Me - I'm in causeway bay.
Not going cycling?

Her-Going to cycling ar, rent bicycle in tai wai
What r u doing in causeway bay

me - having lunch with a friend
weather is perfect today, your cycling will be fun

Her-
U shouldn't use ur phone while eating with ur friend haha
Yeah I think so perfect weather

I didn't reply after that, I want to keep our texting to the minimum. I might see her in class tomorrow, will ask if she wants to go to this place Wednesday night.

Again, one of my favorite babe's that I bang once in a while texted me last night saying how much she misses me so I'm getting plenty of action regardless of this one.
 

Jetleg

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keep it 2-3 texts a day, always cut it off first and say you're busy - work, gym, riding elephants in india or idk. don't ask too much questions, you don't care about her.
if you contact her, it should be short and flirty (that kind of messages that they don't have to answer but they WANNA), its sounds kinda boring...

she is not replying right away because you're texting too much, texts are like stocks for women, they decrease their value as you text more and share more information. instead of texting, just call her and ask her out, then keep texting to almost nothing - if she is intrested she will text you. (she needs to know you're not available for her 24/7)
 

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Just finished class and saw her "leaning" her body on this guys back and it almost appeared that they were making out(maybe they were,didn't bother to get close) I'm just gonna move on,take this as a momentary distraction and bang a freak Wednesday night. Cheers!
 

asid12345678

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**** it, why not. I'll tease her by saying I saw her with her boyfriend and decide whether to continue or not based on her answer. Will keep you guys posted :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just finished class and saw her "leaning" her body on this guys back and it almost appeared that they were making out(maybe they were,didn't bother to get close) I'm just gonna move on,take this as a momentary distraction and bang a freak Wednesday night. Cheers!
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This is all it takes for you to puss out - 'almost appeared that they were making out'?

What a waste.
 

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Little update. The girl got a boyfriend a week after our date. She was in many of my classes, and during this one week in one of our classes I gave what the professor called one of the best presentations she had seen in class and I thought she must have been impressed too. Tried initiating conversation after that and she seemed very cold face to face. Online conversations were pretty much the same. I didn't want to get emotionally invested here for too long so I decided to just let go and do better things with my time.
I was pursuing other girls in this duration and don't find this girl that attractive anymore but just wanted to let you guys know.
 
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