AlphaGhost
Don Juan
I've noticed through my time dealing with women that they display their insecurities thru **** test sometimes, or they'll **** test you when intimidated. And if you play it right, you can strengthen your frame.
Example, i used to deal with this chick back before I grew a pair of balls, and she knew I had no balls lol. She would disrespect me, and I'd be the one apologizing. Mind you i was a handsome 6'5 athletic body, for my age I had decent money and I could have and eventually did leave her for a chick twice as hot as her. One day I was showing another female a pic I took with her and she says to me :
"You guys look nice, but.... You are a lot better looking than your girl "
I think that's when my balls dropped, lol. My ex always made fun of my clothes or said I had a big head, anything to hurt my view of myself, and since I was novice to the game it worked... After hearing that comment it put things into reality for me, she knew I was wayyy better than her and she had to make sure I didn't know that .
When I told her about it, she flipped and it really showed that she was intimidated and didn't want me to know my real value. When she insulted me in the past i should have played it in my favor.
Another example, i have a friend who is what many may call a loser, but we've been boys since 9th grade, so that's like a brother to me. When I'm speaking with my lady and my friend's name comes up I usually speak on how I feel he has potential to do so much better, and i notice my girl feels threatened by our friendship, and would throw out a gay joke.
Now I've had females do this before, they do it cause they know that's one of the things you tell a straight guy that'll make him flip, especially coming from his women... But they do it for that exact reason. Before I had balls id turn on the macho switch and get super defensive, which screams beta and awkwardly enough makes u look gay lol... But now I know who I am, so i told her
" awwww sweet heart, your sad I don't give you all my attention don't worry I love you " in a babying tone lol
And laughed her off and continued my conversation.
It shows that you truly know who you are and you won't allow childish name calling to change that.
Last example lol...
I was determined to get to 225 lbs lean and maintain a basketball players body type.
I have and I feel and look good, ready to show off all my hard work this sumner B-).
Any way, I noticed from men and women alike, constant **** testing. When i was slacking and stopped going to gym people said I was getting fat, even my girl jokingly said woah your getting kinda round. So I've hit the gym and now I noticed fat people are so quick to say wow your Soooo skinny, you need to eat. And women who are are intimidated will call me skinny as they eat their dunkin donuts and watch love and hip hop lol. One morning my girl **** tested me while I was flexing in the mirror jokingly, she says
" wow, I can see your ribs you need to eat! "
Anyone who works out would know what she's calling ribs is actually my obliques they are getting pretty defined I must say lol, so i told her, " babe are you worried that I'm getting too sexy for you? " as I flexed my biceps in her face lol. What she probably expected was" oooo gee sweet heart your right, let me pick up some ice cream and watch TV and eat all day".
At the end of the day. Know who you are, don't allow people's hate, jealousy, and insecurities to change who you KNOW you are. Being a man is just that, standing on your own and being fine with it as long as your happy with yourself.
Example, i used to deal with this chick back before I grew a pair of balls, and she knew I had no balls lol. She would disrespect me, and I'd be the one apologizing. Mind you i was a handsome 6'5 athletic body, for my age I had decent money and I could have and eventually did leave her for a chick twice as hot as her. One day I was showing another female a pic I took with her and she says to me :
"You guys look nice, but.... You are a lot better looking than your girl "
I think that's when my balls dropped, lol. My ex always made fun of my clothes or said I had a big head, anything to hurt my view of myself, and since I was novice to the game it worked... After hearing that comment it put things into reality for me, she knew I was wayyy better than her and she had to make sure I didn't know that .
When I told her about it, she flipped and it really showed that she was intimidated and didn't want me to know my real value. When she insulted me in the past i should have played it in my favor.
Another example, i have a friend who is what many may call a loser, but we've been boys since 9th grade, so that's like a brother to me. When I'm speaking with my lady and my friend's name comes up I usually speak on how I feel he has potential to do so much better, and i notice my girl feels threatened by our friendship, and would throw out a gay joke.
Now I've had females do this before, they do it cause they know that's one of the things you tell a straight guy that'll make him flip, especially coming from his women... But they do it for that exact reason. Before I had balls id turn on the macho switch and get super defensive, which screams beta and awkwardly enough makes u look gay lol... But now I know who I am, so i told her
" awwww sweet heart, your sad I don't give you all my attention don't worry I love you " in a babying tone lol
And laughed her off and continued my conversation.
It shows that you truly know who you are and you won't allow childish name calling to change that.
Last example lol...
I was determined to get to 225 lbs lean and maintain a basketball players body type.
I have and I feel and look good, ready to show off all my hard work this sumner B-).
Any way, I noticed from men and women alike, constant **** testing. When i was slacking and stopped going to gym people said I was getting fat, even my girl jokingly said woah your getting kinda round. So I've hit the gym and now I noticed fat people are so quick to say wow your Soooo skinny, you need to eat. And women who are are intimidated will call me skinny as they eat their dunkin donuts and watch love and hip hop lol. One morning my girl **** tested me while I was flexing in the mirror jokingly, she says
" wow, I can see your ribs you need to eat! "
Anyone who works out would know what she's calling ribs is actually my obliques they are getting pretty defined I must say lol, so i told her, " babe are you worried that I'm getting too sexy for you? " as I flexed my biceps in her face lol. What she probably expected was" oooo gee sweet heart your right, let me pick up some ice cream and watch TV and eat all day".
At the end of the day. Know who you are, don't allow people's hate, jealousy, and insecurities to change who you KNOW you are. Being a man is just that, standing on your own and being fine with it as long as your happy with yourself.