"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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have sex with next door neighbor or not?

thechallenger

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ive got a neighbor in my apt complex
that lives two doors down. and i know that she wants to bang and so does i but list for me some pros and cons djs.
peace
p.s. her lease is coming to an end soon
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Metaphysical

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you should list them yourself. it's your life.

a lot of guys come here and ask people how they should live their lives.

that's not the point of this. the point is to be given guidance not be told how to live it. it's up to you what you enjoy in life.
 

Cashew

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You should list the pros and cons yourself based on what YOU want.

When we know what you want or are looking for and then see your perception of a situation, then advice can be given or the situation analyzed.
 
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