"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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Have problem with approach foreign girls!

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Don Juan
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I will tell you everything that I met so it maybe too long


I just went to NYC last week cuz of exchange student trip and I meet some hot girl there (that are exchange student same as me), but the problem is she is brazilian, so she isn't speak same language as me. But the real problem for me is there is some of "guys" that come from BRAZIL too!!!! (and they're good-looking *not that muscular but the way they dressed, you know...). They don't know each other before I can know that by looking them. But that not a point, the point is they speak in the same language (portuguese), and I speak THAI so I have no idea what are they talking about! Let talk about on First day, I met her in elevator, she is ****ing hot!!!! but I don't know she is exchange student or not so I asked "Are you exchange student?" "yeahh!"she said. "so where are you come from?". "Brazil". "Oh! sooooo....what's your name?". "xxx". Then she asked my name, I told her what is my name and where i come from. And so sad that that's the first and the last conversation with me and her, cuz after that she going down to te 1st floor to meet her friends and talking and I meet some of my friends too so we were seperate. After the first day I can divide people in to 5 groups; 1.Thai 2. Taiwanese 3.Brazilian 4. Germany 5. chinese. So we started to STAY and TALK our own language! (I mean all of students not just Thai). sometime we talk english but not that much. Of course those guys approach her too! I have no idea how can I approach her, its not like approach girl that speak english as a native language (if I talk and make some funny accent sometime she will laugh and maybe understand you RIGHT?!) but girl that didn't speak english well plus with she has her friend and guys approach her and can make her laugh happy or whatever (And the most damn thing that make me jealous those guy more is the last night before we going back to the state that we come from, 3 Brazilian guys have sex with her and her friends don't ask me how I know - -). SO I just want to ask that HOW CAN I WORK THIS OUT!!!!??? What should I do about this!!!!!!


THANK YOU VERY MUCH
 

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SharinganUser said:
Chill out, and try to practice English with her.
How can I chill out = =" She isn't that kind of woman that will be that nice to sit and talk with me cuz she is no need to talk english cuz she has someone that she can talk to that can understand her what she said.
 
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