"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Have problem, can't look straight in the eye!!

unorthodox

Banned
Joined
Sep 15, 2006
Messages
221
Reaction score
0
When I talk to women, and I hate to admit it but sometimes men too, I have hard time looking straight in the eye. I kinda check out neck, chest, hangs. Not like stare, but my eyes wonder off. :whistle:

It ain't no sexual, thought I'm not sure what the expression on my face is when I see something I don't like. How do I fix this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

ChrizZ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2006
Messages
2,028
Reaction score
27
Looking someone straight in the eye is a matter of self confidence. You don´t like to do it because it is out of your comfort zone. The only way to overcome this is to practice.
 

blinkwatt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2005
Messages
1,904
Reaction score
7
Age
39
ChrizZ said:
The only way to overcome this is to practice.
You could start off by keeping eye contact with a hb you see on the street and say hi as if you were to approach,but don't.
 
Top