"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have problem, can't look straight in the eye!!

unorthodox

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When I talk to women, and I hate to admit it but sometimes men too, I have hard time looking straight in the eye. I kinda check out neck, chest, hangs. Not like stare, but my eyes wonder off. :whistle:

It ain't no sexual, thought I'm not sure what the expression on my face is when I see something I don't like. How do I fix this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ChrizZ

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Looking someone straight in the eye is a matter of self confidence. You don´t like to do it because it is out of your comfort zone. The only way to overcome this is to practice.
 

blinkwatt

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ChrizZ said:
The only way to overcome this is to practice.
You could start off by keeping eye contact with a hb you see on the street and say hi as if you were to approach,but don't.
 
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