have i ruined things?

[TurtleShell]

i recently went out with a girl and by the end of the night she seemed desperate to have sex with me but i didnt want to take her to my place because my room is in a bit of a bad state. so in the end i just thought we would walk around a bit in a park, so we did and we came to a picnic table. so of course we started making out and then things didnt go too well. i tried sticking my hand down the front of her jeans which were really tight and i couldnt manage to get her fly undone so i just stuck my hand down there anyway, but of course there wasnt much room for movement and i was accidentally a bit rough. at the time she seemed to like it as she had her eyes closed and was moaning a bit and breathing lots. after a while she pulled her jeans down and i started licking her for a fair while till my tounge got tired, and she seemed to like that too, but it was a freezing night and she said her ass was getting too cold on the seat so we stopped. but then she undid my fly and tried to give me a hand job but she was tugging so hard and her hands were so cold that it didnt really do much. she then said "sorry i don't do *******s". and then we just went off walking around a bit again, at which point she realised she was sore and had trouble walking.

i rang her today (ignoring the wait 3 days rule, it being only two days) and her father answered the phone said she was sick in bed. then about 15 minutes later her mum rang and said she was sorry and she "wasnt being a snob or anything but she couldnt come to the phone as she laringitis and could barely whisper".

because the sex thing didnt really work out very well does that mean i will be put in the lets just be freinds category?

what should i do from here?

 

[davelmn2003]

tidy up your room

I always tidy up my room in the (vain?) hope that one night, beyond my imagination, I get a chance to bring a girl back home.

Do the same and you wouldn't have to do it in the park in the first place. You probably could some serious action that very night!

 

[Mizer]

Hmmmmm, she sounds like a hot-tailed one. You think that maybe you stuck your hand down there to soon? If you try to play around down in the pants before a woman is aroused enough it can be very painful for her. She could be a bit turned off by it....... or not. I can't tell much from your post (but you said she walked in pain afterwards) but it is something to keep in mind the next time you are walking through the park with a female on your arm.

Mizer

 

[Tantric]

Nah,

I wouldn't say you've ruined things...you went on a date, made out with some chick, got a hand job...hmmm...nothin' wrong with that!

Keep in mind she was desperate to bang you...although you didn't due to the "room" deal, you still managed to give her some satisfaction (although it sounded a bit uncomfortable ) You gave her a "Taste" of what she wanted, and chances are she wants you a bit more now.

I wouldn't put too much thought into it. Play it cool...you've already called her, so see if she calls you back once she's better.