Have I met my match?

[ezily]

Why do you want to hurt your wife like this? what would she think if she found out? you know, you married her and had kids with her. What you are planning on doing is just wrong. You're going to hurt your wife and most importantly your kids. If she finds out, she'll divorce you, you'll lose your kids, and you'll lose everything you've worked for your whole life just because you want to have sex with some women. A detective will find what you wrote here so there's really no way you can hide it if she finds out. Either get a divorce if you're not happy or go to marriage counseling to see what is wrong.

I'm really not trying to be the morality police. Personally I don't give a **** what you do. I just think you should stop being so selfish and see how you're going to hurt the ones you "love".

 

[MacAvoy]

The morality police have been suspended.

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Are you posting drunk again iqqi or am I delusional? I never thought I'd see the day you give advice to a man on how to cheat on a women.

 

[iqqi]

Are you posting drunk again iqqi or am I delusional? I never thought I'd see the day you give advice to a man on how to cheat on a women.

It is Tuesday, why would I be drunk.

Anyways, I responded because I thought the OP was a complete doofus, sitting around, waiting to hear from some chick, who keeps asking to see him, I mean, goodness. Just friggin CALL her. ? Women expect a man to pursue for one. There was just so much wrong with that post, besides the cheating.

Men who aren't cheating could learn from this thread.

 

[woolmagnet]

maverick-appreciate the insight. My wife is a great

person. We just don't have a lot in common and the intimacy has dropped way off. We have talks and it gets better but eventually goes back to normal. I really think since we have had children she gives the intimacy too them through forms of hugs and kisses etc... Really though she just wants to be with the family 24/7. I respect that but I need more. She doesn't drink, like sports, concerts etc... I am the polar opposite. Really looking for companionship not looking to break up the family.

 

[MacAvoy]

Men who aren't cheating could learn from this thread.

Good point. I also agreed with your first post, I was just being facetious.

 

[TheBaconator]

person. We just don't have a lot in common and the intimacy has dropped way off. We have talks and it gets better but eventually goes back to normal. I really think since we have had children she gives the intimacy too them through forms of hugs and kisses etc... Really though she just wants to be with the family 24/7. I respect that but I need more. She doesn't drink, like sports, concerts etc... I am the polar opposite. Really looking for companionship not looking to break up the family.

What he is getting at is that you risk breaking up the family in a far worse way if the wife ends up catching you. You describe your marriage as a lost cause.

Now I understand you not wanting to break up the family, but what happens in the event you do get caught, and it's logical to think that sooner or later the wife may get suspicious of your retreat physically, coupled with the nights out getting some?

If she does end up catching you the family split will be far worse then you ending it with honesty. She will get the kids, and she will most likley try to turn them against you for betraying her.

And this is nothing about morality, just bringing up a potential outcome.

 

[MacAvoy]

And this is nothing about morality, just bringing up a potential outcome.

Do you honestly think that he's that dumb that he doesn't realize this "potential outcome". He's obviously weighed the pro's and con's if he's here posting for advice.

The problem with everyone's breaking up the family theory is that your all assuming he's going to get caught. People don't realize the amount of infidelity that goes on in this world that goes unnoticed. Now the guys you see on TV who work alot of late nights, or go on weekend business trips are idiots and deserve to get caught.

However if your smart, you never have to get caught cheating. Now I consider myself the resident pro cheating proponent, I can honestly say I've never once been even accused of cheating. Now I'm not saying I'm great at it, I'm not even saying I've cheated, all I'm saying is, what you don't know won't hurt you. I've also seen women close their eyes and pretend its not happening if the guy acts in an alpha way.