"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have i lost my chance?

Praetorian

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There is this girl, who is the most beautiful girl i have ever met and i have wanted her for a long, long time. I no longer go to the same school as her but am still in contact with her and her best friend.

I could never bring myself to tell her how i feel or ask her out (i didnt know this site existed then, if i did it may have been very different) and so the months went by and i did nothing, other than think of her non-stop and have friendly conversations.

When i look back, she was always flirting with me, asking me questions which could lead to me asking her out. She would hug me occassionally and i was too nervous to really, register it as a possible sign (although i maybe wrong).

Her best friend had supposedly been in love with me (so she and many others said) but i wanted this girl.

Not only is she beautiful, shes funny, smart, kind.......

I dont know if she knew i liked her (a lot) but i feel i may have blown it. I was thinking of going to the school and meeting her, or somewhere else, but i'm not sure if she has a bf now, or if she even liked me at all (although the signs point to yes)

Any advice appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Smooth Player 056

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youve already been an AFC around her way too much. I would personally next her and find your self a girl that doesnt know you from a hole in the wall. If you really feel the need to contact this chick, do so once more ask ehr out. If it goes well fine, if not NEXT
 

Praetorian

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I just feel that i need to do something, just to see if there is a chance, otherwise i will regret it
 

TheNewGuy

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Oneitis.... diversify. Go chill with some other girls, she'll get jealous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frisco

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Only advice i can give is too not talk to her for a couple of months then when u think ur ready slowly start talking to her maybe her felling for u will readmerge if she did like u, not sure if this will work or not but thats all i got
 
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