Have I landed myself in a relationship with an unattractive lady?

[Duracell_Bunny]

To keep it short I've not had a g/f before or dated anyone properly (at 25 very shamefull I know). So I have no idea what I'm doing with someone I've just met, this is new territory to me. I know for fact there is nothing wrong with my appearance as I receive comments all the time about what I wear and occaionally get approched by women. I'm just naturally a shy person at first and struggle for conversation, its just the way I was brought up.

Anyway, I've met this girl from generally going to the same sort of bars each Saturday night in my local town. She has the most amazing body and is a stunner to look at, until she turns around and you see the face... Oh dear, she is so dammed ugly.

This wasn't intentional but a couple of weeks ago she came back to mine and we got it on. We met the weekend after and she requested to come back to mine, then she refused sex. Since then she has also been coming over in the week, snuggling up watching films etc. She did stay over one night and was extremely horny, she wasn't taking no for an answer.

This is where I think I may have gone too deep for my own good. She fits every single element of my ideal girl. I have a decent waged job and find most women I meet turn out to be goldiggers or just attracted to what I own. But this girl is different, all she wants to do is spend time with me (if we are at a bar she demands to pay for the round), she has her own car, has her own place (which is only 5 minutes from me), has to most amazing body that its pornography. Wears the most sexiest of dresses, long blonde hair. She always drives to my place, even when I offer to pick her up. She stayed at her home on her own yesterday, I was in town with the lads and she offered to pick me up and take me home (of corse I refused, but she still came over to see me and stayed over). Other than that, shes a really decent girl and a great fun to be around. BUT SHE IS SO FOOKIN UGLY!!!! To the point that I don't know if I want to be seen with her.

I'm worried that this could be a relationship that I havn't realized I'm in. She is so ideal for me. But I feel embarresed to be seen with her, I have been trying to hold back from her meeting my close freinds, but shes great fun to be around and shows she has standards.

Maybe I should get myself out of this before I become too attached to her? But how? Arrrrggghhh! What a dissapointment. I know I could do better but she is perfect for me. Its got to the point where she is contacting me almost every day wanting to see me.

 

[hamilton]

do what makes you happy man, don't worry what anyone else thinks. if it really bothers YOU, then dump her, but if it bothers you that other people might think worse of you because of her face, you have some inner game work to do. honestly i'd rather a girl w/ a smoking body and a butter face than vice versa anyways.

 

[everywomanshero]

Ya, I didnt actually read any of that, but you just go out with whoever ya want for whatever reason ya want. If you know she's too ugly for long term, then just be honest with her, tell her your down for some fun but don't see things becoming a LTR

 

[Jitterbug]

"But if you make an ugly woman your wife, you'll be happy for the rest of your life...." or so the song goes.

 

[Constantin]

The relationship could serve as good experience so you can go out more confidently from then on, but it is not a healthy basis for a relationships. YOu might end up resenting her for something she has no control over (her looks). It's very unhealthy to want someone to be someone else because we don't have any power to change people.

All this being said if she truly makes you happy and you can deal with the ugliness (that's why there is doggy style right?) then it could be a healthy experience.

You need to look into yourself and see how much this looks thing really matters to you.

 

[Phat]

then if your so sick and tired of getting ugly girls then stop being so fuucking shy and go for the girls who actually attract you!

 

[iliketennis]

if you've never dated another girl you should probably stick with one that makes you happy for now

 

[Julian]

Hello I know we're posting pics of this chick.

DO IT

 

[londonzen]

there was a girl like this at my workplace

personalty 10/10 she was realy funny and makes me smile

body 7/10

face 4/10

plus shes 5 years older than me and a little jealous when im around other girls

anyway she told me she wanted a relationship and im sorry but im too shallow (i wish wasnt like this)

 

[2-D]

"But if you make an ugly woman your wife, you'll be happy for the rest of your life...." or so the song goes.

Haha, awesome reference Jitterbug

And can't you just pretend that you don't like having girlfriends? That you genuinely like her for who she is and you aren't using her just for sex, but you just dislike being in relationships? I've used that a few times before.

 

[zekko]

Well at least she has a smoking hot bod.