Have I got the sosuave idea mixed up?

[jafyk]

I've been reading articles on sosuave.com on a weekly basis; and I'd like to say that this is the best free dating related site. Personally, it's helped me a lot but there's still so much I need to know and implement.

Anyway, I have sort of come to a conclusion based on what I've been reading so far.

I've concluded that, this site is saying that there are things a guy needs to do for a woman to act the right way and be with him. So, whenever a woman leaves a guy or doesn't respond accordingly it's the guys fault. If things don't work out to forget it and move on to the next woman. Since women act on their feelings and emotions, their actions are excusable.Afterall that's the way women are right? Can you blame a toddler for being destrutive? After all it doesn't know any better. If I'm wrong I'd really like to know. I also feel that the general sentiment on sosuave doesn't accomodate the fact that guys might be dealing with external problems and should just block it out and do the right things to attract a woman and God forbid a guy slips up. Here's my thought, I'd appreciate a response.

 

[r0cky]

Yea you pretty much hit the nail on the head.

 

[SinJester]

The thing is, a DJ doesn't 'do' things, so he can't stuff up in that sense. He just IS an attractive person.

What you said is partly true, I mean we shouldn't make women accountable, but we aren't completely resposible for the actions of a fully grown woman.

There is a misconception in the PUA community with the idea of a 'perfect pickup'. It doesn't exist. If it doesn't work out it isn't always your fault, it could be a million and one things going on in her life.