"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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have i become the nice guy friend!!??

senor boom boom

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this girl HB8-9 who i had a very brief thing with a while ago, she really digged me but i refused to go out with her and now were good friends but there is still sexual tension between us( as in it may happen between us again soon). anyway now she's talking to me about other guys shes interested in. am i now forever the nice guy friend without a second chance???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't sit there and chat with her, offer advice, etc...

If she starts talking about old guy friends, change the subject or just walk away.

How much sexual tension? Is she telling you about them to make you jealous, or do you really feel like you're being "friendzoned?"

Either way, the last thing you wanna do is run back now, cuz then she'll know she's got you jealous. (she owns you)

The ultimate reversal would be to tell her to "Go after him," as if you don't give a f*kk. But you already have to be confident/****y to pull this off.

Did you refuse to go out with her? Or did you refuse to grab your balls and ASK her out? There's a difference. :)
 

senor boom boom

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nah i refused to go out with her for various reasons and told her- didn't want a girlfriend at the time- realised my mistake now about 6 months later. yeah there's still tension between us.
that's what i've been doing acting like i don't give a ****.
she sought of brings it up rarely, only giving me minor details so i don't think i've been completely "friendzoned". anyway there's one dude i think she's after now but she never has relationships for long. so should i act like i dont give a **** and let her go after this guy???
 

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Just whip it out and ask her? But do you normally act like a nice guy around people?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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